You're single, and a "taken" person wants to fool around ...

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  1. dan7532

    dan7532 New Member

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    How do you feel about that?
     
  2. macbook bro

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    pretty good
     
  3. macbook bro

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    they're going to do it anyway it might as well be with you
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This has been brought up a lot in here.

    And I do nothing. I don't want to mess around or date anyone who is cheaitng on their SO.
     
  5. Vysion

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    :rofl: I always love this response.
     
  6. Miss Red

    Miss Red New Member

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    I'm in agreement with IWYWB. Why be an accomplice to their bad judgements and hurting someone else?
     
  7. Dahlia

    Dahlia Active Member

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    I've done this once in college... I really wanted the kid badly, but he had an idiot gf.. (And she was weird and gross and he didn't really talk to her)

    He lived in the dorm above me, we spent a lot of time together and the sexual tension was always crazy. He later broke up with the girl and immediately went out and found me on campus at another party, we flirted and messed around hardcore before going back up to his room.

    His gf found out, and was pissed because they were newly broken up and for some reason thought I was her friend(have NO clue how she thought that...) and I was accused of rape by her...

    I never felt bad about the situation.... But I haven't ever done it again. And I know its not really the same kind of situation, but I believe they were going to try to work things out. She took it pretty badly. :dunno:
     
  8. vodkacollins

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    i've done this once without knowing it. he told me they had broken up, in reality, they had not. i had no intentions of hooking up with him while he was in a relationship, so i thought i had done the right thing by waiting til he was single.

    i might flirt with a taken person, but i never take it any further than that.
     
  9. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    I'd feel good that she wants me, but would say no because I hate drama and knowingly helping someone cheat is basically just as bad imo.
     
  10. Viper

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    I'm sort of like Batman when it comes to dating.

    I have ONE rule: I only date/fuck single girls.

    No ifs, ands, or buts. As a result, I've had to pass on a few pretty hot fucking pieces of ass too. One girl was actually after me pretty hard for a while until she realized that I was serious about not fucking around with a married girl. I told her if she was so unhappy with her husband, then leave him and then we could talk.

    She didn't like that. In fact, I was kinda unhappy about it too cause she was pretty hot. But ah, well. :o
     
  11. ChaCha

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    yay for lust
     
  12. Original

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    :werd: i'd do it, sorry other bf, if i knew him i wouldn't :o
     
  13. DTR rex

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    When this happens I just kindly say "I don't think it's a good idea, and I know your SO wouldn't appreciate it".... Sometimes followed up with "and Karma's a bitch".

    If they are just "seeing" someone (casual dating, not exclusive) I wouldn't care. If they are in a real relationship; absolutely not!
     
  14. Vysion

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    That must have been tough... turning down a hot girl that wanted your cock for no-strings attached sex.
     
  15. Bush77

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    I've had girls cheat on their bfs with me in the past and I really haven't felt bad about it. Most of the time they have cheated before and will continue to so what difference does it make?

    Sure I would be devastated if a GF of mine cheated on me but having them try to cheat with the guy refusing is just as bad. :hs:
     
  16. djshotglass

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    :werd: I say do it and then tell their partner ftw.
     
  17. Mugen92GS-R

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    While I like to think I have pretty decent morals, sometimes this is just the case. I can see where someone could be apprehensive about sleeping with a girl who isn't usually a cheater, but the only 'taken' girl I've ever fooled around with had cheated on her BF tons of times, with tons of guys, so I didn't really feel bad about it. Hell, it kind of got me off in a weird way knowing that she was taken :rofl:
     
  18. gettinthere

    gettinthere Best titties evAr FTW!!! Epic.

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    If I know a chick is dating someone, I won't make the first move. I may flirt a bit. But if she makes a move, it's game on.
     
  19. JustaMeThang

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    I wouldnt enable their cheating, let them find someone else without morals.
     
  20. djshotglass

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    more for me :bowdown:
     
  21. Timer

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    no way
     
  22. Falconer

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    You are not cheating on anyone.
     
  23. Falconer

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    The best solution is to do it and then send an anonymous postcard to her SO letting him know that his gf is a whore. You would be doing him a favor.

    You have to keep it anonymous, tho, because most guys are retarded and would get pissed at YOU when it was their gf who cheated. You did the guy a favor by exposing the objective truth that his gf is a whore. If anything he owes you a beer and lots of money that you saved him by ending his relationship with a whore.
     
  24. djshotglass

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    ^ tru.dat
     
  25. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    My sentiments exactly. :bowdown:
     

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