Your Sex Drive VS Your SO's

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Who has the higher sex drive?

  1. My sex drive is higher

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  2. My SO's sex drive is higher

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    18.3%
  3. We're pretty close

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    17.0%
  4. What's an SO?

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  1. Deckard

    Deckard New Member

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    Just out of pure curiosity, do you guys find that your sex drive is higher, lower, or similar to that of your SO? I know that no two people are going to have the same sex drive, but I'm just wondering if the difference, in general, is pretty big or not.

    For example, my girlfriend and I have very different sex drives, although I wouldn't say the difference is terribly radical or problematic. I, for example, could probably have sex at least once a day easily. The fact that I've stopped masturbating recently isn't helping this, but it is making our sex better so it's really a non-issue. She, on the other hand, well...it's not that she's never aroused, but I'd say that her sex drive is definitely at least a bit lower than mine. Even when we do plan on having sex, sometimes I'll get there and she'll change her mind. Totally understandable, but occasionally a bit frustrating. In all of the time that we've been dating, I don't actually think we've ever had sex two days in a row, and only once or twice have we managed more than one session in a day; usually she's still horny, but just not up for actual sex.

    I'm not complaining at all, because I love her and the fact that she doesn't have as high of a sex drive as I do isn't really a problem, but I'm just curious what it's like for other OTers, and how couples deal with this kind of thing.
     
  2. LudaMan

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    Mine's quite a bit lower than the gf's. Lexapro blows because of that. :hsd:
     
  3. dmcgill

    dmcgill New Member

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    We're about the same.
     
  4. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    My sex drive is crazy high. I have to have it at least once a day and I get it from him once a day and sometimes more on his weekends. I also masterbate as well during the day... Sometimes daily sometimes not... really depends. If I could have his cawk in my mouth or some hole of mine anytime I am awake during the day, I would be sofaking happy. :rofl: (I am totally cracked out on caffeine right now, please excuse me)

    He could go a few days w/o sex. It doesn't get to that point because of me though. :mamoru: I think the longest we went was like barely over 24 hours and that was only like twice in the 4 months I have lived with him.
     
  5. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
  6. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I think his is higher.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Mine has been higher and will probably always be higher. I'm female BTW.
     
  8. negative zero

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    Mine is higher than my wife's. But even mine has slowed down a bit. I'm good if I can get it once per week. She's fine with once a month. :ugh:



    Not trying to derail the thread. My wife is on Lexapro. So it decreases sex drive????? I don't know anyhting about Lexapro. I think I remember her starting to take it after our daughter was born but her drive hasn't changed since then. She's always been OK w/once per month or so.
     
  9. ChaCha

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    My gf's is higher

    She pouts sometimes because of it lol. This has not been the norm in past relationships.
     
  10. Toxica

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    We are about the same.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Ive only ever met one girl whose sex drive was as high as mine :hs:
     
  12. PcH

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    Higher here, but it can be pretty close at times
     
  13. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

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    I don't have an SO now so i can't honestly answer this. But i have only met one girl i dated that had a crazy high sex drive, sometimes more than me. If we didn't do it once a day she would masterbate. I like to have it at least once a day but depending on my daily activities i could lapse a day.
     
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    mine is higher. I want it 5-6 times a day.
     
  15. CorpseStreet

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    My sex drive was higher than my last SO's
     
  16. Lucifer

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    Mine is insanely high, I can do it 3 times a day with no issues and in fact, when we first started dating we would. The years have gone by, marriage, a kid, and now another one in the oven and I'm still way beyond her. It gets bothersome at times but there is so much more to our relationship than sex.
     
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    Lexapro can decrease libido in some people. It did decrease mine a little bit, but I could still have sex once a day if that was the case. I can tell you that the meds make it a hell of a lot harder to orgasm.
     
  18. C.W.

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    My sex drive is higher than my GFs. We are both 24.

    While she doesnt really initiate sex like I do, she will let me pound her whenever I want so its not bad. I dont think there has ever been a time she wouldnt let me have sex with her.
     
  19. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    Mine is significatnly higher than the wife's. She only wants it about once a month while I am one that wants it constantly through the day. It is not uncommon for us to have sex in the morning and then for me to masturbate another 2 or 3 times in that same day.
     
  20. Hood Moses

    Hood Moses I part the Black Seas...

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    Me and my GF only see each other once a month so when we do its usually wake up sex sex sex go out sex sex sleep, well see how it goes when we stop living so far away.
     
  21. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    Yet another reason why I think that you are the perfect woman!
     
  22. negative zero

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    Thanks. I'll have to look into this a little more.

    And she doesn't have issue having an orgasm. Although that's probably best for another thread. :hs:
     
  23. GTLifter

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    That's how it was with my gf when she was living in Charlotte and only saw her once a month. I miss that. :wtc:
     
  24. Hood Moses

    Hood Moses I part the Black Seas...

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    Move to Savannah :naughty:
     
  25. GTLifter

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    sorry bro...even if you wore a wig and makeup I still wouldn't fuck ya...don't like my slampigs being bigger than me...
     

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