OK here's the story.. I met a girl about 2 months ago. We went out every weekend for a month, we made out, etc but were never really officially BF/GF. We "talked" for a month. Well, sometime within that month she started dating another guy aswell. Well, after that month I decided I really did like her and asked her to be officially BF/GF. About 10 days after it was official I hear she's still dating this other guy.. (I never knew she was dating him in the first place otherwise I'd never would have asked her to be my GF, I don't believe in dating multiple people, though I realize most people do.) So naturally I'm raging pissed cause I think cheating is a low thing to do, I invite her over and tell her I know what's going on.. She started crying and saying she's sorry and he just kinda rolled over into our relationship and she just never really broke it off with him and saying she wants to be with me, she really feels a strong connection, is falling in love, etc. So I tell her I need time to think and to go home. The next day she calls and says she's never gonna see that other guy again.. So, that was two weeks ago and I'm still with her. All of my friends are asking if she's "the one" then they so "NO, so just forget about her and find someone else." But it's not that easy, you know? The way I see it is, she was dating both of us (neither were official) then she realized she really likes me and we become official and she just never really told the other guy off. I'm confused as to what to do. When I see her she seems to really be falling in love with me, and she always calls to say hi and see how I am, etc. Opinions?