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  1. BADASSADOR

    BADASSADOR New Member

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    Do you think it's wrong to ask a female how many sexual partners she has had?
    Normally it has just come up in conversation but with this new girl I'm with I can't really get on that subject but I'm dying to know.. I wonder if I should just come right out and ask her?
     
  2. IslanderOffRoad

    IslanderOffRoad Do you even lift kit? OT Supporter

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    If you get to know hers, she gets to know yours.

    The past is the past, I'd forget about it.
     
  3. Dr. Kenneth Noisewater

    Dr. Kenneth Noisewater New Member

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    As long as she doesn't have any STD's, her sexual history is none of your business. I wouldn't ask her if I were you.
     
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    jct_4628 New Member

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    if you cant let go of the idea, just come out and ask her. She will probably understand. Tell her you dont care because u love her and as long as shes clean its all good, but your just curious. Then be sure to return the favor. I think she will probably not care about telling you. IMO....but if you can go on without it, just forget it because you never know..it could cause a bad reaction from her
     
  5. Neo22

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    Just make sure she's been tested since the last person she was with. Thats all you need to know.
     
  6. punkerjim

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    if you plan on sleeping with her, it's your business.
     
  7. AngelsWing

    AngelsWing New Member

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    Agreed. It's your right to know.
     
  8. Muricane

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    You probably don't want to know. :o
     
  9. Nikolette

    Nikolette New Member

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    You may have the right to know considering you will be sleeping with her but like Muricane said, you probably wouldn't want to know. I did this with my bf and I wish I never asked...I'm over it now, but it was a huge shock when he first told me. Make sure she's been tested or get tested together and that;s all that should matter to you. The past is the past so why not focus on the present and future =)
     
  10. RyaN95i4

    RyaN95i4 We are the boys from old Florida

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    Good rarely comes from that question.
     
  11. cuz

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    my bf recently asked me, we have been together for a little over a year now so i knew it was going to come eventually, but when it did it was really akward, i didnt want him to know, hes really pertective (in a good way though) but i just didnt get it, i know he has had a lot more than me, but i dont want to know, i dont get why he did. but either way i told him, pretty much just to avoid the fight that i could see coming. but i still dont know how many hes had, and i dont want to.
     
  12. Spaulding Smails

    Spaulding Smails Real Estate Guru

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    i don't want to know from my SO....I don't want her to know that my last two years of bachelordom was spent fucking everything i could find....
     
  13. russd10089

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    Agreed

    Her past is your business if you're having a relationship, but, honestly, you dont' need to know. It's better to not know, expecially if it's beyond a certain point to where it bothers you.

    So, i'd forget about it if i were you, dont' worry about it, cause she's with you now.
     

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