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  1. HeY HeY HeY

    HeY HeY HeY New Member

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    I have talked several times with my husband about me possibily being with another guy while he watched, or videotaped it. There is a new guy that just transfered to my work who is just out of college, he is 19 and his name is Eric. I just want to get across that I dont want to be with another guy because my husband doesnt satisfy be but because I am very open sexually and both me and my husband are usually into some "freakyshiat" He agreed and gave me the green light to start "flirting" with Eric. Its been about 2 weeks now and the flirting is going good but something is holding him back, I have told him several times that both me and my husband are very interesting in this idea but he seems very hesatant. I dont know if its because I am older or if its because he would feal weird if my hubby is watching or what but I am definitly getting a negative vibe from him. Does anyone have any suggestions, or does anyone have any stories to tell about themselves and having sex with older/younger men or women.
     
  2. Black of Night

    Black of Night New Member

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    Honestly, I think you should just ask him what the hold up is. If there's something he is not comfortable with you can either try and work around it or stop wasting your time and find someone else.

    When I was 18 I was having sex with a 42 year-old woman.... She taught me a good deal I must say, but there was really not too much else and it got old (no pun intended).

    Alternatively, maybe ask your husband to try finding a guy for you too.
     
  3. awlewis

    awlewis New Member

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    I didn't see a fax number or anything so...

    Andrew
    22
    sexy
    just out of college
    virgin when it comes to an older woman (unless your under 29)
    ok virgin when it comes to married women (unless just foreplay and blueballs counts)
    penis retracts and extends upon command!
     
  4. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    :rofl: :rofl:
     
  5. PocoDiablo

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    My take? Your little 19 year old guy may just be shy. Suggest making the first move... give him a blow job at work or something?
     
  6. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Move on to another one that's a little more experienced/not scared of your husband.
     
  7. bigfodee

    bigfodee Active Member

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    i fooled around with this girl when i was 22 and she was..... you know what, nevermind
     
  8. contactone

    contactone OT Supporter

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    I think you hit the young kid with too much. Should of fooled around with the new guy and then possibly told him about the filming/watching. The whole,"Hey, want our first time having sex to be in front of my husband?" thing might come off weird.
     
  9. naughtie

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    :mamoru::mamoru::mamoru::mamoru:
     
  10. awlewis

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    No it is not detachable!
     
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    xxx New Member

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    FUCK! hahhahahahahah i envy you dude, good work! :bigthumb:

    i have to stop being so fucking shy, but 20-year-old-vigin-wanting-to-go-down-on-a-mature-lady signing in :hsugh:
     
  12. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Agree 100%. For something like this you definately need good communication so just go right in and ask whats up. My bet is that he is weirded out by having someone watching, I probably would be too.

    Also I'm not sure I'd believe a married woman who said that her husband was ok with me having sex with her. I'd probably need to hear it from him.
     
  13. dscallaway69

    dscallaway69 New Member

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    I just turned 25 and have been sleeping with a 39 year old now for almost a year. It is great. We have a lot of fun. It is strictly sex but hell that seems to be what you are looking for anyways. I am always willing to travel.
     
  14. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Why do you have to live soo far away?:wtc:
     
  15. Black of Night

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    As for the married woman thing, theres a married couple that I regularly have sex with (sex with her anyway).... she's into guys, girls, gangbangs, etc.... He likes seeing her fuck other guys (though he joins in too, she loves multiple guys at once). She's like 29, so not really an age gap, but I was skeptical at first that he was ok with it until he invited me over and suggested it. After that happened, and I was sure everyone was on the same page, it was cool and easy, also a no-pressure environment. Sometimes we just watch movies (non-porn).
     
  16. BaneBoi

    BaneBoi ƒł٤şħ Ąđđίçŧ

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    Youre going to be hard pressed to find a young guy thats going to be cool with playing with both of you right from the start. You'll either need to reel him in by playing with him by yourself a few times first (take him out, tease him, make him want it, etc), or start over with someone else, and dont go right into so much detail. Flirt, say your husband is a chill guy, but dont get into the specifics until all three of you hang out a time or two.
     
  17. Zeus'_pet

    Zeus'_pet ..are we there yet?

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    Go you! There is almost 10 years between my SO and I. I must agree with you on recommending a younger man!


    Good luck with the search!
     
  18. dguy

    dguy She smells like angels ought to smell.

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    2 thumbs up for older women. Current girlfriend is 41 with the body of a 25 year old dancer.
     
  19. Cyndia

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    wow..... good for you!!!! :bigthumb:
     
  20. bigman7903

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    i read this when it was first posted and my initial reaction, being 19 yrs old, was :eek3: :bigthumb: :naughty:

    Taking a few days to think about it, if a female coworker came up to me, that i didn't know too well, that was quite a bit older than i, and began to flirt w/ me, i I think i would be ok.

    Proposition me... i think i would look at you a little weird too.

    I don't know about him, but there is a decent chance that he is inexperienced and possibly even a virgin. Right there would be enough for me to be a little bit uneasy w/ the situation.

    Throw in the fact that you are married, and most likely wearing your ring during the conversation, I would probably (i hope, never actually been here) nix all of it right there.

    And then to top it off you would want your husband to stand in and watch. Convo done, i would have royally freaked. :nuts:

    I have some other issues i have to deal w/ on my own that would have come into play as well but those really don't play too much here in particular in your situation, they would only come into play if it were to happen to me personally. :(

    On top of it, i doubt this kid has the vantage point of lurking on FS for almost (wow) 2 years and being slowly introduced and numbed to this type of encounter/situation/fun, so i bet he's never even thought of anything outside of vanilla sexual encounters.

    To make this short and concise, i'm not in the least bit surprised at this reluctance to participate in this. I would look in other areas for participants who be a bit more willing to do it.
     
  21. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    Get to know some swingers... singles and couples. :)
     
  22. kendogg

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    post some pics of you. Im 19 and ill tell you if i would consider or not..
     
  23. awlewis

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    She has posted them. We don't ask for pics. And the ellipses has 3 dots... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ellipsis
     
  24. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    I was with a 19yo at the age of 29 so I know they've considered me.

    YOU on the other hand I have not clue, but I have and do attract younger guys.

    I'm in my avatar- (also click username if you want to view my profile)

    edit- oh wait.. I'm not sure you can do that since you dont have a sub.
     
  25. IEATPUPPIES

    IEATPUPPIES New Member

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    how many 19 year olds are fresh out of college? He would have to start at like 15-16.
     

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