I have talked several times with my husband about me possibily being with another guy while he watched, or videotaped it. There is a new guy that just transfered to my work who is just out of college, he is 19 and his name is Eric. I just want to get across that I dont want to be with another guy because my husband doesnt satisfy be but because I am very open sexually and both me and my husband are usually into some "freakyshiat" He agreed and gave me the green light to start "flirting" with Eric. Its been about 2 weeks now and the flirting is going good but something is holding him back, I have told him several times that both me and my husband are very interesting in this idea but he seems very hesatant. I dont know if its because I am older or if its because he would feal weird if my hubby is watching or what but I am definitly getting a negative vibe from him. Does anyone have any suggestions, or does anyone have any stories to tell about themselves and having sex with older/younger men or women.