Young and in love....kinda....

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  1. fromthecold

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    I'm a youngin', 19 and have a girlfriend of 3years and change. We both really love each other, but I still find myself very attracted to other women. I can't help it. Like I still feel that I need to explore more. I don't wanna sound like an ungrateful dick, but I've only had 2 serious g/fs and I wanna go and even just hit on a girl....

    Is this so wrong?
    any insight....:hs:
     
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  3. fromthecold

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    I know tons of girls that are the same, if not worse....
     
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    doesnt sound wrong to me... you can look but you cant touch, thats a rule I have and I have always abided by that rule. If Im talking to a chick and it seems like she has any sort of attraction to me then I automatically tell her that Im taken. I dont try to hide it whatsoever, so I dont know if that really counts
     
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    As long as you don't "pursue her," you are perfectly fine :o
     
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    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    yea me too...i'm interested in many girls...any good looking girls...i really want to touch them and pursue them....but all fo the times i just talked to her....maybe hang out sometimes....the worst thing is all my ex-past and ex-isitng gf are jealous about the girls around me...
     
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    :rofl::rofl:
    Seriously, though. You are so young. And only 2 serious gfs? Well, there's the answer. Of course you want to explore. My SO had to try it 13 times to get it right ;)
     
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  10. fromthecold

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    ya....but sometimes I think that..... we should take some time appart...
    but we all know that that never works out......

    and if she finds someone else.... well, I'm almost guaranteed to want her back (jelous much....)

    but if im feeling like this... I don' think I'm being fair to her just letting things keep going like this........ I mean, it's better to try something different now right???:dunno: if we ever get really serious (engaged or something) then I'll be confused.......

    I dunno.... sorry for the rant here....


    cliffs: do i try the 'time off" things with my gf now, so I'm not tempted later?
     
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    If you were truly in love with her you wouldnt have these feelings, sure you can notice an attractive girl but if you were truly in love you wouldn't have these feelings about wanting to explore other girls, get away from the relationship before you hurt her, and if you're meant to be together you'll find yourself back together after you've grown up some.
     
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    its totally normal.
     
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    totally normal, i have these feelings too :hs:
     
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    fuck her friends

    well i have the same shit im 20 and have dated this girl since i was 18 so 2 and a half years. well i have felt like that since day one...day fucking one and it has not abided at all. I feel that since im 20 that maybe this is my only time to just fuck like crazy w./o caring. so what ive done is just not tell the other girls about kristi and then they never have to know about each other. in all the times ive cheated she's only known like 15 of the girls and thinks that ive slept with only 2 of em!! I love this girl to death and she will probably have my kids someday so i dont want to jeapordize that later. i dont want her to have to live in fear of me cheating on her, i mean she already does because some stupid bitch called her phone and told her, and she busted me thru text messaging. so watch out for that shit and check her phone back. basically all you gotta do is keep her in check and u have no problems. peace jon
     
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    *sorry this is unrelated* is this post what you honestly feel? if so jonny, your relationship problems are what youve said above. i can introduce you to my girlfriends but if you wont take them seriously, i will NEVER give you another number. don't feel frustrated because this post sums up your whole problem. kristi is too good for you at this point. STOP POSTING UNDER MY NAME FOO, peace
     
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    :werd: then what to do..... what to do....


    thanks for the input OT
     

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