you just have to go for it

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  1. themolsen

    themolsen New Member

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    GORGEOUS blonde at the bar with her friend Friday night. I looked at her and she did a double-take and smiled at me with a little stare. I thought I recognized her so I walked right up and said "Hey, I recognize you."

    Turns out she was in one of the university classes I taught a month or so ago. She was absolutely ENTHRALLED with me and was like "I was hoping you'd come over and talk to me!" She introduced me to her friend has her teacher and we joked a lot about the teacher-student relationship

    The whole teacher-student thing definitely worked in my favor. The slight element of "power" gave me some extra confidence and I think made her look up to me too.

    She was having a "girls night" with her friend, so I didn't force the issue or anything. But I set off some good jokes and we had a couple good short conversations. After a good joke (on a high note), I told I had to get back to my friends and handed her my card and said "You should call me." Her eyes LIT UP and she was all smiley and was like "Yea! I definitely will!"

    In retrospect, I should have gotten her number too, but (A) she was with her friend for girls night and (B) I wanted to do the confidence thing and just leave it in her court to see what happens :dunno:

    I may never hear from her again, who knows. Hell, she might have not been interested in talking to me at all. But the fact that I approached her knowing that possible outcome is what excites me and makes me feel like I'm really growing and maturing.

    Anyways, I'm effing STOKED about this because I almost NEVER approach a girl that good looking and in that manner. 2 months ago I would have thought "She is way too good looking and I don't even know how to do this."

    It's interesting: I think gaining 20lbs in muscle the past several months has probably made me bigger and more attractive to a point, but I think it's the confidence I get from thinking that that has helped me the most with picking up women.

    I don't mean to brag, but I'm just excited that I'm finally having some consistent success with women these days. I owe some of it to the VAG for sure, so thanks :wavey:

    Cliffs: Guys, you've heard it a thousand times and I'll repeat it: Just go for it. You'll never approach a woman confidently and have any kind of success if you're afraid of being rejected or if you believe you're not good enough for her.
     
  2. PcH

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    Good stuff, I still would've gotten the number though :o Doesn't matter if it's a girl's night out really. Last number I got, she was right next to her friend. Her friend saw we were clicking and stepped away for a bit for us to swap numbers. I think she went to the bathroom or something. Whatever. Good job man. Cliffs on your card?
     
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    Let her call you, no worries ;)
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Feels good, man.
     
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    Oh, it's just my business card. But it helped reinforce the "power" thing I guess. Kinda said "Hey, I'm successful and I have my shit together." :mamoru:
     
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    Cool, so a girl basically screamed across the bar that she's into you and it worked out. :ugh:
     
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    No, the thing is that I actually DID something about it. A few months ago I would have smiled back and maybe hovered around her, but my balls would have remained firmly planted inside my abdominal cavity, functioning as ovaries, waiting for HER to come talk to ME. Then I would have left the bar feeling low.

    "ugh" me all you want, but I think it's a big deal for me.
     
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    lol

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    PcH Guest

    fixed
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I used to carry this card in my wallet. Whenever someone started going on and on about some boring ass shit, I'd interrupt and say "Oh, that reminds me!" and hand them the card. It said "I DON'T CARE".
     
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    :rofl: awesome
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    Oh shit I can call giz :eek5:
     
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    49c/min phone sex special
     
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    ngas gon have 56 pizzas delivered to his front door
     
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    A. bullshit b. wrong. youve been in the vag long enough to know better, so i won't belabor the point.

    Other than that :h5: and congrats. Sounds like you are making great progress.
     
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    My friend used to get these ridiculous cards made and hand them out.

    Like

    His real name
    PORNOGRAPHER
    and his real number
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: That reminds me of the pens I got from SS. They say shit like "Sex Addiction Clinic" and other hilarious crap so that when you lend your pen to people they think you're nuts. :rofl:
     
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    :o Yea I guess I still make excuses. Definitely progress for me though :bigthumb:
     
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    nice, badass man.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    giz, you are amazing
     
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    Assuming giz got that from phu pham :o
     

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