You get a girls number, how many times do you try calling. Now with Poll!

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How many times do you try calling a girl and get the runaround before you say fuck it

  1. None, I only asks for girls numbers so I can delete them from my phone

    5 vote(s)
    3.9%
  2. One call

    61 vote(s)
    47.3%
  3. Two Calls

    50 vote(s)
    38.8%
  4. Three Calls

    8 vote(s)
    6.2%
  5. Four+ Calls

    5 vote(s)
    3.9%
  1. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    I'm not just looking for answers for my specific situation, just kinda interested what most other people do. Obviously it's a situational question, but i'm sure everyone has some kind of "guidelines" they go by.

    Normally i'll try about twice over a period of a week+, and if they don't pickup I'll just delete there #. But I'm confused on how to deal with this situation.

    I got a girls number on the 4th, she seemed really into me and things were going well. We talked for like an hour or 2 at the pool I met her at. I called her a couple days later and she sounded really excited to talk to me, but after a couple minutes she said she was in the pool again, and asked if I could call her back later. I call back like 2 hours later and she doesn't pickup.

    I called her this weekend and she said she was with her family eating dinner, so I told just call me back later and she never did.

    This is all over the period of about the past week and a half, and I'm thinking about calling her today. If the same shit happens, I'll prolly just delete her #.



    Normally I don't put this much thought into these type of situations but just the fact that shes so happy to talk to me each time is a mind fuck.
     
  2. tarheel

    tarheel Guest

    She's being nice but trying to tell you that she's not interested. One call. If she wants something to do with you she'll remember.
     
  3. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    Yeah, that's kinda what I figured
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    one call dude. why put in so much effort when you are getting nothing in return?
     
  5. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    Good point. I've just got a terrible tendency to over analyze things
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: @ poll results
     
  7. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    Guess i'm retarded :o
     
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    I think one calls kind of cutting it short. You ever think that maybe some people are just busy and don't have time to call back. I work and go to school. During the week it doesn't matter how into you I may be I won't call back because I'd rather be sleeping at that time. I'd say 3 strikes works with baseball so I'd go with 3 calls and if she doesn't call back then she's out......
     
  10. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    That's somewhat along my logic, but I guess girls don't care for sports much :o
     
  11. knucks

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    usually one, sometimes (now very rarely, i have learned) two
     
  12. saosko

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    Depends, you might have called her too early. Should always let a few days pass by so the anticipation can build.
     
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    I say 2
     
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    if i like you, im finding the time to call you back. being busy is a bull shit excuse.

    i stand by just one call
     
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  16. Falconer

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    Keep calling every 15 minutes until she answers the phone. She wants you to call otherwise she wouldn't have given you her number. She's probably busy or her phone is malfunctioning and she will be flattered that you called so much because a girl giving her number = very interested.

    :rofl:
     
  17. Falconer

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    in all seriousness i prefer texting. they can reply whenever, and so can i.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  19. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    the funny/sad thing is I actually know a guy that will get drunk and do this :rofl:
     
  20. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    He can't figure out why girls don't like him :dunno:
     
  21. saosko

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    I've done this in my younger days.
     
  22. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    I'm sure a lot of people have, but at least you learn from mistakes/failures. Some people never do and just continue to live as they always have.
     
  23. eXyle

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    once, maybe twice, depends on the circumstances.
     
  24. ldaggerl

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    Honestly I just don't find the time during the week to call people back, not even family or friends. I don't see many friends or family during the week unless I'm working with you or going to school with you.
     
  25. saosko

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    It's not like it takes 3 hours to send a small 2 or 3 line text.
     

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