Was talking with someone about this, what would you do if this situation came up? Say you have a thing for a guy/girl who lives far away and met online, and he/she is married, but separated, and when you "fell" for him/her, you didn't know he/she was married. You have never met this guy/girl previously, only corresponded online and via phone for over a year. Now say you get word from this person that they are coming to the state that you live in, and it's fairly close to where you live. Do you go meet him/her? Do you let whatever happens happen? Or do you go to meet, but with the idea that you will not sleep with them? Or forget about it completely, they are married, after all.