I know I do it to myself, but for some reason I keep seeing the damn good in people and I continue to let them take advantage of me. And then I dont stop it because then I feel bad, like I'm mean or things will be my fault if I do stop things. A friend recently gave me advice telling me to not be so available to people, if I'm always there, to just not always be there, if I always do things, to stop doing things for people. I just find it really hard to. So how do I stop without coming off as a mean bitch?