You deserve better

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Just saying.

    :wavey:


    (I think it was Poco Diablo who used to say that a lot. He was a cool dude)


    edit - analysis mode on: Most of you probably do. Some of you are probably with good matches, and others of you probably legitimately don't deserve better. But the rest of you, you deserve better.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I had a guy tell me that once.

    Really it just meant "I'm in love with you, please choose me."
     
  3. Falconer

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    He meant you deserve better than him?

    Did you say "I know" and get up and leave? :bowrofl:

    Also I edited my post for completeness and for lulz.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nooooo, sorry, I meant he said it to me when I was dating a different guy.
     
  5. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Whatever happened to him :confused:
     
  6. Falconer

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    He got busy with some other stuff. I was PMing with him last year.
     
  7. Falconer

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    Oh snaps.

    Question: Can a guy say that to a woman without sound like he's in love with her?

    Example: if my female friend was dating a dick and I wanted to tell her she deserves better even if I wasn't interested in her?
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'd say it depends solely on my relationship with that guy. I have a few friends who if they said that to me I wouldn't think they had any alterior motive...but other guy friends who I'd know meant it because they had feelings for me.
     
  9. Toxica

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    People used to say that to me when I was dating my ex. I ended up dumping him, and I have found someone better.

    :bigthumb:
     
  10. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I'm single, which means I'm essentially dating myself. What're you trying to say, Falc? :squint:
     
  11. XxvODvxX

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    You deserve better :rofl:

    It's ok, i'm right there with you :h5:
     
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    I'm dating myself as well. And I think I'm perfect for me.
     
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    What does it mean when the guy you're dating says that to you?
     
  14. Falconer

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    Uh...

    er...

    It means...

    ...find some porn with even hotter chicks than the porn you watch now! :bigthumb:
     
  15. themolsen

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    Depends on the context and how he says it....but he might be trying to get out of your relationship. Or he has low self-esteem..?
     
  16. Kev07

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    my friends used to tell me this all the time, and i knew it, but i didnt care :rofl:
     
  17. Viper

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    If this is the case, then I must be one hell of a guy. :mamoru:
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If someone says that to their SO it means they aren't really in love with that SO.
     
  19. Viper

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    Just curious what your logic is behind that. (seriously asking)
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Pretty simple. I mean every situation might have different little factors (SO not over an ex, SO might be emotionally damaged, etc.), but deep down if it's the right person and they are in love with you they're gonna fight to stay with you and never claim they deserve better.
     
  21. Viper

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    Hmm, I was misunderstanding then I think.

    I thought you meant that when person A says specifically "You deserve better" to person B, that you were saying that person A doesn't actually love person B.
     
  22. Falconer

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    Or they're crazy in love with their SO and are afraid they aren't good enough :dunno:
     
  23. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    It's all a semantics game. If you say "There are a lot of guys out there who would be better for you," that would come off differently than "You know, you really deserve better... you should let me prove it to you sometime."
     
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    *looks at his hand* but we have such a great relationship :hs:
     

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