Yikes, worst feeling is

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  1. orangecuse

    orangecuse OT Supporter

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    Wanting something to develop between yourself and another, but without those feelings returned. I think finding out someone cheating on you is not as bad.

    :wtf: not supposed to happen, lonely feeling bros. feel like a complete douche.
     
  2. reminisce

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    we've all been there :hug:
     
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    haargerman ayuh.

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    it's called the friendzone
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    When where we really want to be is the

    dangerzone.
     
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    Have you ever been cheated on?
     
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    Been there, sucked, but its not the end of the world and someone else comes along.
     
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    Lol yeah being cheated on is exponentially worse. But I understand your frustration.
     
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    Cheating is way worse. But your situation still sucks. Sorry to hear.
     
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    TFunkadelic One Nation Under A Groove

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    Incomparably worse.
     
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    It's not as bad as you make it out to be, but no doubt, it sucks. We've all been there.

    Luckily, it's a lot easier to move forward when there wasn't a mutual connection (read: love) between you two.

    If she friendzoned you and you're feeling this shitty about it all, stop communication for a while and give yourself time to heal. Otherwise, you'll never get better. I've seen dudes get friendzoned that stayed in that zone, secretly lusting over the chick for YEARS, and it tore them apart.

    A few times it worked in their favor, but 90% of the time it won't.
     
  13. AndNineteen

    AndNineteen G!zMo's High School Pic

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    I think the worse feeling is both people liking each other but one being in a serious relationship. Terrible
     
  14. Repus

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    Agree.

    Or worse.... when you start dating and having feelings for someone and THEN A FEW MONTHS LATER you find out she has a boyfriend.

    Yet youve already had sex with her, let her into your life, and you both have feelings.
     
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    haargerman ayuh.

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    wtf
     
  16. orangecuse

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    Ya maybe I overreacted a bit. I've been cheated on once that I know of, but the relationship I was in at the time was only a few months old so I guess there was a finality to it when I found she had cheated. I was pissed but knew it was over that instant. This along with the fact that I was young and didn't have a ton of emotions involved.

    With this girl I have been dating now(or previously), seemed like it was going good for a month or so. Where things became silly is when I had an expectation that something was going to develop. I get hooked way too easily when I find a "good girl".
     
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    :werd: fuckin thing suncks :wtc:
     
  18. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    what did she say to you to make you think the feelings aren't mutual?
     
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    No, I'd have to say being cheating on is way worse since I've had both happen to me. Since the relationship where the person that cheated on you wasn't that long, you wouldn't really know. Try years of a relationship.. that's horrible.
     
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    haargerman ayuh.

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    Yep, sucks bro. :hug:
     
  22. AndNineteen

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    my ex cheated on me with my best friend and i'd still say Falling for someone who's married or in a LTR and having them tell you they feel the same way about you but not being able to do anything is far worse.
     
  23. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    for me, what sucks is the fact that I actually thought this chick would have liked me. that misjudgment on my part surfaces because I don't know enough about myself. Turning around and looking at yourself and flaws is way fucking hard man:noes:

    you gotta find someone willing to accept the flaws, and if you don't know what they are, it's a bad start.


    not everyone is going to like you. Having a cerebellum probably has somewhat of a role in previous statement.

    this is not at all a problem for me because I respect the meaning behind marriage or LTR so I would never give the person pity for telling me they feel the same way about me....you say you are going to commit to someone, you do that....don't tell me you feel for me.....that shit is serious business for me
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    There's no way that could be worse unless you're completely delusional. Being cheated is a violation that destroys trust and makes you question everything you know. Falling for someone who doesn't or can't return the emotion is something you walk into knowingly and intentionally. It's like comparing being stabbed in the back by your best friend to punching yourself in the face.
     
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    fucking dot
     

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