Yes, the 23084390th breakup thread.

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  1. LudaMan

    LudaMan New Member

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    Had been thinking about it for a couple weeks now. She has changed so much since we started dating 7 months ago. She made me her whole life and expected me to do the same. She told me that she loved me a couple of weeks ago and I couldn't say it back, because I didn't feel it yet. Thought about it and realized that I would never love her and we just weren't right for each other.

    She cried quite a bit and begged me to reconsider, but if it didn't happen today, it would happen later. It sucks that it didn't work because she's a great person, but she wasn't right for me and she deserves to be with someone who will feel the same way for her as she does for them.
     
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    Good for you for realizing this and not dragging the relationship on - not many people are about to do that :hs:
     
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    :h5:

    you did the right thing. onward and upward!
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Sounds like you two are not a good match. Break up approved. *stamp* Sorry for your loss. Next in line.
     
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    i wish i could go back 2 weeks and slap myself for not doing this
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :h5: for doing the right thing

    DO NOT contact her, or answer any attempts of her contacting you. It will not be good for either of you.
     
  7. LudaMan

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    Thanks guys, glad to know I did the right thing.


    Done and done.
     
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    this.
     
  10. peoplescar

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    :hug:

    people change, relationships change, its hard to accept that.
     
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    x2 Best thing you could have done...
     
  12. LudaMan

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    Yeah, she was crying so hard and I almost changed my mind, but I stuck to my choice. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do.
     
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    why didn't you love her
     
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    Dont really know for sure, but I really liked her in the beginning. She was confident, non dramatic and just plain fun. After we had been dating for 5 months she turned into needy and incredibly insecure. Like I said in my first post, it got to the point where She made me her whole life and expected me to do the same. I want to be a part of someones life, but I don't want to be their life.
     

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