Ye old Long Distance Relationship....In need of help

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  1. nikkostarr5

    nikkostarr5 New Member

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    How do you keep it alive and exciting? It's not that my love for my boy is any less, I just have been finding it harder and harder to see all these happy couples all snuggly and doing exciting fun things together, and I can't do that.

    To make matters worse, my BF has been having money troubles right now and the cell phone bills really add up so we decided not to call each other. It's hard, cuz I really need the intimacy of hearing his voice. So right now all we do is chat on AIM, and it's getting quite dull. I feel like I have nothing else to say to him. :( And chatting on AIM can be so forced. I dunno, does anyone have any suggestions.......please help :sadwavey:
     
  2. IreLynx

    IreLynx New Member

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    Since you two are able to chat online, then why not get webcams & mics (if the webcam happens to not have one) & talk to each other that way? Then you can talk like you were on the phone as well as getting to see each other in the process.
     
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    How far (distance) and how long (relationship)?
     
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    i am selfish so i wouldnt be able to do the long distance thing. but good luck!
     
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    That's a very good suggestion. :bigthumb:
     
  6. Yes have some!

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    Did long distance with ,y wife for 5 1/2 years. You need communication and most importantly, trust.
     
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    Are your phones on the same network? We get alot of free phone time that way.
     
  8. nikkostarr5

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    no, because I'm an american and he is canadian, so they only have canadian phone companies.

    oh and we lives over 1,000 miles apart. 24 hours driving (which i havent done) or 2 hours flying. And we have been together since Dec.
     
  9. RoblesGT

    RoblesGT [Track Days: 19 ][Crashes: 1] [SuMo Days: 1 ][Cras OT Supporter

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    webcams woman ... then you can see him and he can do naked dances for you while you masterbate ... :hsugh:

    but seriously, I'm in Japan .. g/f is in States (NJ) ... I sent her a webcam and i got myself one ... we chat as often as possible and sometimes even "talk" through it when the services work ... we seem to be doing well, :)
     
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    My girlfriend goes to school in Philly and I go to school in Oregon.

    We see each other about once a month.


    What makes it work for us is trust and LOTS of talking.
     
  11. I don't see anything wrong with long distance relationships

    As long as you know for Sure that you can trust her and know for sure that she will stay faithful while you two are separated.

    I've heard allot of nightmare stories about long distance relationships

    I'd guess that only 1 out of ever 5 LDR-s work out the main reason for them not working out is because someone usually winds up cheating.
     
  12. Coco Monkey

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    im in iraq.


    she's in st. paul, MN.


    Been together since early November.

    Christ yes its tough. But in the end, we know that it'll work out. I trust her, and she trusts me. and thats all we need to know that everything will be fine. I call, or TRY to call about once every 2-3 days. i shoot her emails everynow and then, just reminding her that i love her, and that she means the world to me. Along with a more personal letter that i'll send every few weeks.

    hang in there. it'll work out.
     
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    webcams work well...but if it's always been long distance, it eventually needs to come together...

    ....mm? :mamoru:
     
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    Just a suggestion, why don't you both get T-Mobile, Cingular or AT&T where in network calling is free? Then you could both talk as much as you like.

    Other than that.. Long distance relationships are hard - there is a reason they very rarely work.
     
  15. nikkostarr5

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    yeah see Canada doesnt have any of those companies, that the problem :sadwavey:
     
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    Look into the new voIP phone plans, Almost all of them offer unlimited calling to Canada and the US, and the service costs about the same as a regular phone line.

    Im in Canada and I know you can get it through Shaw, and Vonage. Its something for your BF to look into. :)
     
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    try paltalk
     
  19. psalm

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    Doh! That sucks. Aren't there some VOIP companies that do unlimited long distance for a flat monthly fee? I know there are in the US..
     
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    Read my my post, its up a bit :cool:
     
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    I daydream a lot, especially about sex. If I were you I would post him in the snail mail hand written letters detailing sexual fantasies you have had about him. I would spray the paper with my perfume (a familar scent if possible). And encourage him to do the same thing.

    You could also mail him you panties :p
     
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    psalm Thanks niquesuave06 for the AV

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    nikkostarr5 New Member

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    thats totally hot. :naughty: I just might do that one :) Oh and thanks guys, ill check out the other things too! :x:
     
  25. aznh2oman

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    theres also a program called skype i think that allows you to dial with ur internet connection and then talk with headphones and a mic..
     

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