wtf is w/ crazy ex's?

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  1. Juice

    Juice New Member

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    so i was seeing this one chick for way to long. to me it was just like a one night booty call, that she dragged on and on. i was drunk when i met her, and every time we did anything i was drunk. so of course she thinks that were dating. totally not g/f material. so an old female friend of mine messages me the other day wanting to hang out. so of course i do. well the ex finds out and wont stop calling and texting me. asking who i was with and why? its like get the hint, i already told her its not gonna work with us and to stop calling me. well she decides to call all of my friends and ask whats wrong with me? :rolleyes: wtf? so now im seeing this old friend and things are amazing :wiggle: how can i get the stupid woman off my back?? :rolleyes:
     
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    i've tried that for the past week or so. the day after i told her that its not going to work out, she texts me "hey what are u doing today?" i have been ignoring her. but she became semi-friends with my group of friends and is constantly calling them to find out stuff about me or whats going on. its just crazy. i am thinkin of having my new g/f answer the phone one time and being a complete and totally bitch to her and to stop calling me. not sure if thats a good idea?
     
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    I had that happen once and apparently replying to txt's out of courtesy is leading someone on :rofl:

    I thank god she was a bogan and didn't have internet access :ugh:
     
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    Perhaps this girl loved you and love just does not die overnight. Perhaps you shouldn't of made her your "booty call" and stopped to consider (yikes!) her feelings. Perhaps you misrepresented your intent. Obviously it wasn't a one nighter, as you have stated you went out with her way to long...why did you keep coming back to her? Availability? Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you feel? It seems like it is a good time to have the (groan!) talk...extricate with compassion but be firm. Indifference although effective, is startingly cold and can be shattering. It is human nature when someone eludes the other pursues. I would also talk with your current and explain the entire situation. Having your current talk with this woman will probably have little effect. It might be interesting though, if you both talked with her. I don't think stupidity has anything to do with it...some people's feelings are stronger than others, some people hurt louder than others, and some people just take longer to hear the wake up call.
     
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    i've always been a firm believer in just being very open and honest, explain to her as plainly and simply as you can "i'm not interested in dating you, i'm dating this girl _____. etc etc"
     
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    yea, i like your thinking.. and i appreciate everybody else's (sp?) info that have put into this. i guess u kinda had to be there to see what was really going on. but its in the past now, im with somebody new and she is amazing. so if the crazy woman trys calling again, i think i will explain it to her.. thanks alot guys/gals
     
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    so a little update of the crazy one*

    so tonite we pull up to quick mart just now, my buddy wanted smokes. josh (friend) is working there, and we see stupid *crazy ex's* car. i stay outside and buddy runs in. comes out like 5 minutes later, saying crazy ex was talking mad shit about me. about how i broke up with her over the phone, and then immediatly after i had sex with my new gf? wtf? he said she almost started crying.. so i think josh (friend) is telling her shit thats not true. fucking gay. then she just called my brother, asking why i messaged her "u shouldnt talk shit unless u know wtf u are talking about... " and started giving my brother some sob lame ass story.. god i cant stand this girl. i seriously could go the rest of my life without ever hearing/seeeing from her agiain :rant: sorry OT, i had to rant.. :hsugh:
     
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    damn that sucks, how f**ked up is that? Urgh, I'd try to ignore that, have fun with your whoever that is. Dont even give a shit....i know it hard since she is relating everyone around you. But what else can u do? kill her ? no way!
     
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    BoypussY game over.

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    kill her
     
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    one of your buddies should step up and take one for the team by fucking her. Perhaps then she'll forget about you.
     
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    juice, apparently you have no concern about how you make others feel or how your actions will hurt others down the line. This whole rant has been about YOU...about how you feel and how you can get rid of this girl. Did you let her know from day 1 that she is just a booty call? Or did you just assume that she will figure that out when the time comes? Seriously, this is a low life thing to do.
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    stupid women follow stupid men...

    As for crazy ex's...they were crazy when you met them, you just blinded yourself to the fact, hense my first statement..
     
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    Some ex's are just crazy. My ex from High School 6 years ago wants me back. Hes like "Im sorry I was young and immature then"
     
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    i have no concern for people? where the hell do u get that? she is the one calling my family and my friends wondering wtf is going on. doesnt stop texting me all day everyday, and bitches to people at a gas station.. i clearly broke it off and she just cant admit the fact. on the other hand its fucked up thing to have a friend of mine saying all this shit about my new s.o. to her, when it doesnt concern her u know...
     

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