wtf..is this normal?? v ex-gf

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  1. euro_R

    euro_R OT Supporter

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    we were talking online today and she asked me what i was doing later on, and i mentioned that i was going out with somebody tonite ( i know i shouldnt have but it slipped out)..

    she asked me for a name and i refused to tell her because i know she's to type to go search on facebook..and probly e-stalk her :ugh:

    anyway she blew up on me for not telling her :rofl:, i told her its my personal business and she doesnt really need to know..she's been out with people before and i couldnt care less who it was with so i dont ask :ugh2:

    then she dropped the whole "clearly im not important enough anymore for u to be keeping secrets from me"


    fucking women *facepalm*
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    no this isn't normal
     
  3. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    ex?

    who gives a fuck.
     
  4. euro_R

    euro_R OT Supporter

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    we've maintained somewhat of a friendship..the breakup was sorta mutual..i really had no reason to cut her out of my life :o..yet :hsugh:
     
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    epracmetcon New Member

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    Stop talking to her = problem solved.
     
  6. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    If you're still on friendly speaking terms then politely tell her that the names of the people you are seeing are none of her business.
     
  7. euro_R

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    thats exactly what i tried to do..:o..

    meh..moving right along :wiggle:
     
  8. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    Just shrug it off. Withholding the information from her is for her own good, because she'd probably just obsess over the girl if she could look her up on facebook, judge her, compare herself to her, etc. You did the right thing.

    It's normal for some girls to ask for information that they don't really want to hear, and then get upset when you tell them. She'd be upset whether you told her or not.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh wow, what a shock. Another thread about a guy confused about an ex's reaction.

    STOP TALKING TO HER.
     
  10. Gogoplata

    Gogoplata Guest

    I know, right?

    When it's done - it's done. This whole "we're still friends" bullshit is such bullshit.. Bullshit..

    All your doing is sabotaging your NEXT relationship keeping ex's around.. You're not "Friends".. If you got along so awesome - you would have stayed together.

    When it's over, be gone. Cut your ties, move on.
     
  11. euro_R

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    :hs: you guys are the best :love:
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    So establishing boundaries is one thing but I'm not sure I get the "YOU CAN'T KNOW WHO" boundary.
     
  13. Viper

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    fail lol
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i'm still friends with my ex'es.

    with one of them i didn't break contact at any point. hence the ongoing friendship.
     
  15. Viper

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    :rofl:

    I was just fucking around. I still keep in contact with a couple of my exes. I obviously have to see my ex like every week, but there's another girl I was with that I still email once every couple of months.
     
  16. infinite.purple

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    maybe best to hold off on being friends and chatting regularly until she's over you enough to not really care who you're going out with
     
  17. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    out of curiosity, did you try being friends with an ex who wasn't over you and fail?
     
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    yes, but i've also been the psycho ex trying to be friends and getting pwned :o
     
  19. D7

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    :werd:
     
  20. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    It's the "it's none of your business" boundary.
     
  21. Effervescent

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    Ahaha. You're still under the thumb.

    Loser.
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Why?

    "because they're broken up."

    So?
     
  23. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :werd: I feel weird to say "it's none of your business". However I wouldn't get offended or anything if an ex tells me that either, I try to understand. :dunno:
     
  24. giz

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    why is it her business?
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If you talked to your ex online right now and he told you he was "going out" tonight and then said he wouldn't say who.....I have a feeling you wouldn't just try to rationally "understand"
     

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