WTF girls and phone numbers

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  1. rjacobs

    rjacobs New Member

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    So I met this girl last week when I was out drinking. Things went well and I hooked up with her. The next day when I was leaving, she asked me for my phone number. I would have been content to just go home without it. She sent me a text later that night saying she had fun and we should go out again. I texted her back, no response. After that, I have gotten nothing from her. I called her once, no answer, no return call. I texted her again, no response. I dont want to get defensive with this girl and just come out and say WTF because I will probably see her again. If it was a drunken hookup, great, but at least have the decency to call me and tell me that. I really dont care, I just hate not hearing anything. So why does a girl ask for a phone number, text once, then never return a call or text?
     
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    what were your responses?
     
  3. rjacobs

    rjacobs New Member

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    When I texted her back the first time, she had asked where I was, I said I was working and in Washington D.C. said I would call her when I got home. When I called and left a message a few days later, I was going back to work and said I would try to get back in touch with her when I got back the next night. When I texted her a few days later, I asked how her weekend was and if she wanted to get together during the week for dinner and drinks. No response from anything.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: Oh how quickly things change once you don't feel like the one in charge.

    Seriously though, why are you freaking out so much? You even said yourself that you are probably going to see this girl anyhow without even setting up an actual date, so just cool it. It doesn't even remotely sound like you care about her, but are just annoyed that she's not all over you with phone calls :rolleyes:

    She probably feels like an idiot because she slept with you and is now backing off. Calm down. You even know you don't give a shit about her.
     
  5. rjacobs

    rjacobs New Member

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    Im not focusing on this girl at all, this had been over a period of about a week and a half. Like I said, I could have cared less if I never spoke to this chick again, but SHE asked for my number and is now blowing me off. That is why I am in a WTF state of mind about it.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Get over it and your ego. There's your advice.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: Our emotions change with the wind.
     
  8. Durka Durka

    Durka Durka Guest

    you're a bunch of weirdos. :squint:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Hey hey, I appreciate the fact that you all are simple-minded and think with your dick first :kiss:
     
  10. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    and it fucking pisses me off :squint:

    One week I am getting an email every day before she goes to work, next nothing at all. :wtf:
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ignore her. She'll come running (usually).
     
  12. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    you got played son. You should've given her a fake number. Sounds like she was the one that was running the night that night. Which isn't wrong or bad, but she was in charge. Since shes in charge she has control of what happens and what doesn't hence why your here complaining why you have no control. She has it and made that clear from the start if you saw it or not.
     
  13. Falconer

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    Thus the reason for prenups ;)
     
  14. MattThom01

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    Something came up. Someone else came along. Who gives a shit?

    Haven't you ever done the same thing to a girl?

    Don't waste any more of your time worrying about it.
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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  16. BlackIce72

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    Feeling before fucking. Don't do it.

    /manly post
     
  17. 04JETTA

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    i must admit i get a little :wtf: when stuff like this happens but o well life goes on u know sorry tho :sadwavey:
     
  18. owenstar

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    Chicks are strange...

    I have a bad habit of over texting....not because I am clingy....but because I have an sk3 and can send 10 before someone sends 1...And I always come up with more shit to say on the fly...and I am terrible at holding my tongue

    If this girl calls you back pretend like you totally forgot who she was...then make her buy you lunch....
     
  19. Durka Durka

    Durka Durka Guest

    i got the worst

    one week she wanted to marry me and have my balls gold plated on her wall, the next week she tried to fake her own death to avoid talking to me.
     
  20. Panoptimist

    Panoptimist Put a bangin' donk on it.

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    Once you hit send, don't touch it again until you get a response. Period.
     
  21. Shadoxity

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    lol i do the same thing :p cause i have lots of credit to, i send a message then go shit forgot to say this and send another 3 :p hahaha
     
  22. NCS

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    either you wrote dumb text messages

    OR

    she just wanted the one night stand but felt awkward leaving without doing the token-ask-for-number-move to feign interest
     
  23. scent of a wookie

    scent of a wookie OT Supporter

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    I'm terrible at holding my tongue too :hsd:
     
  24. rjacobs

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    Update.

    Girl sends me a text message today while I am in mexico asking me what I am doing. I sent her one back when I got back, but again no reply. Well a few hours later and I get another one from her. She says she is a little shy about talking to people on the phone. I mean, come on for shits sake, you werent shy about getting drunk and sleeping with me on the first night we met, but now your shy about talking on the phone. Now I really dont understand this chick. I told her I would try to call her tomorrow since I am going to bed. I figure I will try to call her in the afternoon and if I hear nothing, her number gets deleted.
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's pretty simple...and pretty sad.
     

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