wtf first date.. v.notagain

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  1. A Cow

    A Cow OT Supporter

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    gah.. alright long story..
    i went out with someone last night.. all good.. went drinking with her and her friends.. and then once again.. ( so far every time i ask a chick out ) i banged her.. this is when.. she started the night saying "nothing happening"

    and i didn't even push.. i even tried to be like "i don't really want to do this.." so.. wtf is wrong with me and or got any advice how to avoid this in the future.
     
  2. fray

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    say no next time?

    edit: probably the "i don't know if we should be doing this" line makes her think you're mr. nice-sensitive-guy and makes her want to jump you more.

    I assume it's the sexing you're trying to avoid??
     
  3. giz

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    none of your posts ever make sense man, jesus christ.
     
  4. BradUF

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    It's not just you.
     
  5. huntz0r

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    In reality that bit creates more sexual tension (barriers), and that makes her want to jump you.

    six/half-dozen
     
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    so I got that it's a long story with a short explaination? You drank something with a girl and company. You then fucked her? Earlier she said she didnt want sex, which is common to make them innocent. Then she had some booze and you fucked her?

    If I can ever pretend to comprehend your message, then what is wrong is how you are presenting yourself and the situation. If you go get plastered wtih a chick odds are you wanna fuck her. Plus not saying no to it seals the deal...
     
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  8. A Cow

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    im canadian.. and 80% of the time im stoned or drunk..

    here it goes.. in cliffs
    CLIFFS:
    met chick
    went drinking
    she stated she DID NOT WANT TO FUCK i was happy with that
    we both soberd up
    we fucked on a kids play set in a elementry school..
     
  9. fray

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    so what's the problem? Are you upset because you didn't want to have sex? Or because you didn't want her to want to have sex? Or because she said she didn't and then did anyway?

    Apparently you're very charming and well-spoken when wasted, as evidenced by your initial post. Perhaps she just could help herself any longer after spending so much time with drunken-you?
     
  10. Sephiroth13

    Sephiroth13 Beginning of the End

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    cliffs of cliffs... right. :ugh:

    Honestly man, if you didnt want to have sex you wouldn't have sex. Your body speaks louder than your mind is. No matter what you say to her your still doing it. If you don't want to have sex, say NO... Otherwise your just being hypocritical to your self and your posts.
     
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    it takes two people to have sex, it's not like she forced you to do anything. :ugh:
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    so there's no actual problem, right
     
  13. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    so you are upset that you got an STD?


    why are you upset about sleeping with a chick?
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    maybe he is a sexaholic
     
  15. A Cow

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    erm.. yea..

    but.. the problem is.. for me sex on the first date means that the relationship is going to end up beeing sex based.. vs personality based..

    like honestly.. having a gf for.. hell.. a week without going at it evey time is like a holy grail.. and its not even just when im drunk.. that was the first time ive had a first date where we went drinking.. gah!!.. i think i just need to be chemically castrated..
     
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    I've read the thread a couple time now, I still fail to see a problem.
     
  17. Sephiroth13

    Sephiroth13 Beginning of the End

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    Then what you need to do is fucking put your dick behind bars when you go out with a girl.. .and no matter what fucking advance she puts on you, you say NO... Problem solved. Thats how you do it son.

    Honestly man your doing it to yourself. If your giving in and giving it to her, then your only setting yourself up to fail, but if consistently say no and don't feel her up...stay all "good" and shit, then it works, belive me.
     
  18. cracka.

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    Sounds to me like all your seeing is party chicks... expand you social life a little further then what you have now.. Find women with the 'personality' your looking for, ones that aren't focused on sex...
     

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