wtf! different girl, i couldn't function

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  1. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    ok so i broke up with my crazy ex officially abut 3 weeks ago, we were going out for a year and we only had sex like 5 times

    the first 2 times i couldn't get it up i don't know why but i just couldn't

    then the 3rd time, i could get it up but i couldn't stay hard


    now, i was getting some from this girl in my car tonight

    and i couldn't fucking stay hard enough to put on the condom! when i finnaly did, i got in and lasted for a good min, then she wanted to be on top and i couldn't stay hard anymore


    WWTTFFFFF

    im mad pissed, how the hell am i supposed to deal with this!
     
  2. LT Smash

    LT Smash Give'm the kick

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    its usually just in your head and you need to focus. was your ex your first?
     
  3. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    lol, thats such bullshit. there are tons of different reasons you cant get it up. but you were probably chicken shit scared
     
  4. Peyton Manning

    Peyton Manning I love your mom a whole, whole lot.

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    yeah, could be a whole buncha things. could be ED, could be he's scared shitless. could be he's nervous.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Holy hell, do kids in high school really move that fucking fast? You didn't break up with your ex 3 weeks ago, you practically just broke up with her days ago according to your other thread. Try not having sex in a car :HS:
     
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    DTR rex New Member

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    Try having sex under better circumstances that don't involve so many distractions. I.E. don't do it in a car if you having trouble keeping your wood.

    Also, are you lazy, out of shape, and adverse to exercise and have a shitty diet. A lot of times getting in some regular exercise and cleaning up your diet will do WONDERS for you sex life and stamina.
     
  7. keysmachine

    keysmachine New Member

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    dude your 21 so you can immeditaly rule out ED its impossible for you to have. literally impossible read up on it.. unless your takeing certian medications that cause sexual side effects.

    NOW

    its probably all in your head man.. how many women have you had sex with? not many probably.. are you rushing into the sex part? no foreplay? or does the foreplay not last long and you try and get right to it?

    sometimes when men focus to much on the orgasam part of sex.. their mind beings to wander.. when this happens you lose your wood. so take it slow and take your time.. LOOK at her vag when you get her pants off take it all in and you'll find you won't have a problem getting and staying hard. let me know if that helps
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    key, i'm pretty sure when i google'd ED every site made a point of noting that ED can occur at any age, not just 60.

    they say it can be a result of health-related shit like diabetes, or of psychological shit.

    just because it is psychological does not make it less of a problem or easier to deal with.
     
  9. Joser

    Joser Active Member

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    dude, you just have alot in your mind.
     
  10. Abomb

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    key gives horrible advice :ugh:
     
  11. keysmachine

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    its kinda embarrassing to say but I had that problem to when I was a VIRGIN. back when I was 17 I went to the doctors when the second girl I wanted to pound into the bed I couldn't function

    I asked the doctor he said I'm not prescribing you Viagra because you don't need it, your to young you may over masturbate if you do stop and be more sparse with it. and then he recommended me psychologist to see.

    I did what he asked and never had a problem since. also he noted that if you can masturbate by yourself and hold and keep an erection until climax, your problem is mental.
     
  12. keysmachine

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    riiiiiight :uh:
     
  13. Abomb

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    you dont know dick about erectile dysfunction:mamoru:, it can occur at any age. just shut the hell up and let people who actually have knowledge about the subject speak, thanks keyboard jockey
     
  14. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    i know its def. not ed because i can get it up and jack off and all that shit

    i'm 20, i'm not in h.s. and i've slept with 5 different girls

    i had the same problem with my ex, for the first 2 times we tried to do it, i had a hard time getting it up.

    right now i have alot of shit on my mind, death in the family and shit, im worried about alot of shit, just got a new job, and im starting a whole bunch of projects.

    well, shes a fucking hottie and im gunna try to rail her in a few days :)

    she got ontop of me and then i went soft.... of course it was 5 am and i was a little under the influence of something.....

    when i got home i knocked the fuck out, so maybe i was just tired....

    i dunno.... goddam i wanted to rail the shit outta her.
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    my point would be that if your problem is mental, that doesn't make it any less of a problem, but that's how it sounds - like a dismissal. my point would be that of COURSE it's mental, sex is 95% mental. my point would be to find a different doctor if the problem persisted.

    say you have a sleeping problem? haven't slept in a few days? well, don't worry! it's only mental. have a nice day :hsugh:
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sounds like you've got all your priorities in order...
     

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