I'll start by giving some background information. Awhile back I saw a girl i knew from highschool at a party and we ended up talking most of the night. She kept asking me why we never hooked up and kept saying how she would really like to mess around with me. The catch was that she came with a guy friend of hers who was/wasn't her boyfriend, she says they werent going out but he is protective of her so she didnt want to fool around that night. I ended up getting her number and we would kick it sometimes. We ended up having sex only once and other times we would just hang out and do little stuff like making out. After that she kept sending me mixed signals. We would make plans but then she would never follow through with them. I eventually gave up but later on when we ran into each other she would ask why i stopped calling. At that point i said i would just stop thinking about her because that guy would always come in the way of things. I figured if i did happen to run into her and she was no longer with him i would maybe go for it. Well I hadn't talked to her in about a month but the other day i got an IM from her. I was away at class so she just left one message, she said how she really missed me and wanted to hang out this weekend. She also said she was no longer hanging out with that guy, but just missed me and really wants to hang out. I then got a call from her the other day and we talked for a little and she said she would call me later today. I am planning to meet up with her and go out. When i am with her i have a great time but i just want to be clear with her. Would it be wrong to just straight out ask her if she wants a relationship or what she wants with me?