Would you take your S.O. back?

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  1. HYEST

    HYEST New Member

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    If they cheated on you?
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I don't think that was a hypothetical question.
     
  3. OoOlAlA

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    a big NO
     
  4. Injected1

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    NO. Trust would be gone. It would eat at me. And my evil half would convince me that it's ok to do it to her because she's already crossed the line. And from what's I've seen with ppl I know, once they do it, they are very likely to do it again.
     
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    There are very few situations in which I would leave my gf, but cheating is pretty much THE ultimate reason. Cheating is unforgivable, so no I couldn't see taking someone back for that.
     
  8. Cerridwen

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    I have in the past, but he got his one chance and there won't be anymore.
     
  9. RedVsBlue

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    no. It may be a difficult no, because even if my wife cheated on my I would still love her, but the trust would be gone, as would the relationship.

    Never take back a cheater.
     
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    depends... but generally I wouldnt
     
  11. BATMANs

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    if a girl cheated, chances are that he was better at facilitating her an orgasm with a larger appendage and all over her vaginal pressure points have been awaken..... so no.

    If a guy cheats on a gal, it's just as much emotional tie as masterbation.

    Guys are masters at seperating sex and emotion.
     
  12. Injected1

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    :rofl:
     
  13. BATMANs

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    it's true and the truth hurts, even in this day of politically correctness......
     
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    For a relationship - no. For kinky freaky sex to show there is still some kind of caring... sure. After the test. :)
     
  16. otherlank

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    in my eyes, once a cheater always a cheater.
     
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    now i wont, i did with my ex and she did it again. but its all for the better because now i found a girl who is amazing and i couldnt be happier. i still get nervous about it because im worried about her doing it also
     
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    If you take her back, then the lines are drawn. She knows it can happen again, and she can cry her way out of it again, and you'll keep coming back....you're basically telling her that it's ok. Fuck that.
     
  19. Tiberium

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    No... and if my wife cheated on me I would kill her. If the guy knew that I was married then I would kill him too.

    girlfriend = GTFO
    wife = death
     
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    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    haha

    guess are we talkin full blown sex cheating or a little foolin around or kissing or what kinda cheating.

    Full blown sex, likely no but foolin around... if she was really sorry... maybe
     
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    Doesn't matter how much I felt for her....she'd be gone.

    If they are willing to do that, and have no respect for you or your relationship...then why would you take your SO back? He/She was willing to go behind your back and hurt you in the first place, so why would you put yourself through that all over again.

    And even if it's just a little kissing or fooling around...I don't care. You broke that trust and bond between us.

    And alcohol is never an excuse.
     
  22. Daddy O

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    You guys are so quick to jump to judgment. MY SO cheated on me. I came home and found her in bed with another. They both left together. After 2 months of pleading and begging I finally allowed her to come home. When I got home that evening, there she was in my bed with her other lover. I tell you, it took me three weeks to get over the experience of sharing her with another woman........perhaps the best FMF I've ever experienced.:mamoru:

    And afterward.....now I have two women who love to cook, and they don't mind cleaning up...it's really heaven.....well, except for one time of the month.....wait a second......make that two times of the month.....gulp.

    Sometimes "Sharing" can be the right thing to do.
     
  23. BATMANs

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    synchronized periods?
     
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    haha....this is retarded....but funny.
     

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