I've been thinking about getting a small tattoo in honour of my son. It will be somewhere on my back where I can show it if I want to, or keep it hidden for work. I do not have any tattoos, so I'm a fresh canvas! My husband is dead set against this, and because he is my husband, his opinion does matter to me. He does not like tattoos at all, and looks at me with disgust when I mention it. I know if my family knew I had one, they would be disappointed in me because they are so against it as well. I am extremely close to my family and I don't want to cause problems. What should I do? I keep postponing the idea because I'm worried my husband or family will think less of me.