Would you rather your SO have fucked cool people or douche bags in their past?

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Which would you prefer?

  1. I'm a guy - I'd rather they have fucked douchebags and I'm the coolest

    33 vote(s)
    32.0%
  2. I'm a guy - I'd rather they have fucked pretty high value guys

    54 vote(s)
    52.4%
  3. I'm a girl - I'd rather they have fucked ugly chicks before me so i'm the hottest

    4 vote(s)
    3.9%
  4. I'm a girl - I'd rather be joining a list of attractive women

    12 vote(s)
    11.7%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    This applies to guys and girls.

    Say you're dating an 8. He/she's hot :h5:

    Say you find out about their past partners.

    Would you rather:

    If you're a guy:

    - Find out they're all douchebags

    - Find out they're all pretty cool, good-looking, successful guys


    If you're a chick:

    - Find out that they're all ugly chicks, like 4s

    - Find out that they're all gorgeous



    I figure it could go either way.

    On the one hand, it would be cool to think you're the hottest person your SO has ever fucked. It increases your value in their eyes.

    On the other hand, it shows lower value in your SO if you find out they only fucked losers before you.
     
  2. ZCP M3

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    Ideally, I'd like her to have fucked cool people in the past with me slightly above them on her scale. High valued SO for me and I'm of high value to her. :h5:
     
  3. Pringles

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    This seems rather pointless to me, but I voted.

    If you're a guy:

    - Find out they're all pretty cool, good-looking, successful guys


    because I'm in that category and I want a female that seeks those kinds of males.
     
  4. Falconer

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    Followup - if you picked the cool guys/gorgeous girls choice, would this make you jealous or insecure that maybe you won't end up being "as cool" as the people in their past?
     
  5. Falconer

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    Yes, that is ideal.
     
  6. Falconer

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    Some people will pick the douchebag/ugly girl category because they need to feel like they're the best out of all their SO's past.
     
  7. Falconer

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    I admit I would be insecure if the guy my gf dated before me was a studly billionaire with an 8" dong and an exciting lifestyle.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Much rather prefer he had had sex with non-trolls or fatties.
     
  9. Abomb

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    yeah that would be a rough one to compete with :rofl:
     
  10. giz

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    I'd rather not know who she fucked.
     
  11. Abomb

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    I want to know so i would know what type of chick i was dealing with
     
  12. Alaya

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    Would "much rather be joining a list of attractive women" for me, hands down.

    I had an ex that had fucked lots of ugly girls, and it actually made me feel :ugh: about him when I found out, and also a bit :ugh: @ myself like, "woah, I hope that doesn't reflect upon me :eek4:." I think it says a lot about people's standards, and people's standards say a lot about them to me so they're important :dunno:

    I'm not saying if a guy has fucked a couple "trolls" as beer called it in his time that would change my opinion of him, but if that seemed to be the norm rather than the exception it would certainly change my opinion of him no doubt.

    just sayin' :hsughno:
     
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    What is up with all these polls?
     
  14. antihero

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    its better then it continuing to be dead in here :dunno:
     
  15. Abomb

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  16. Alaya

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    nope

    The only time I've questioned that kind of thing, wasn't because I thought she was prettier/cooler than me [we were arguably pretty much on par with each other lookswise, and I'm pretty damn cool]... was because they had much similar lifestyles than he and I had. I more questioned it in a compatibility sense, if he would need someone like her eventually, and our lifetsyle differences would catch up [both total hippies, vegetarians, etc. etc.... which well, I'm not]. And that actually had nothing to do with her specifically, but more just a general, "does he need someone like that" not necessarily "her."
     
  17. antihero

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    I think you misinterpreted my post though.

    My post was not about dating low value people, it was about letting herself be treated AS a low value person.

    back in the tent... if two decent guys said yes, they would probably leave the tent and be like "that was awesome. I didnt think she was serious when she said she wanted to do that! she was hot too. last night was craaazy!"

    where as douchebags would be all "yeah, we just ran a train on that drunk slut. she tried to say no anal and douchy mc'backwardsdirtywhitehat shoved her own underwear in her mouth and did it anyway. that sloppy bitch is a trainwreck." <spit indoors>

    Id rather she get fucked all night by 3 decent guys (in a tent) in a way of her choosing then used and abused for 5 minutes by a guy she really should know doesn't respect her in the slightest.
     
  18. Alaya

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    I love how "the tent" has become the ubiquitous example of everything [I'm being serious, that wasn't sarcasm]. I've seen it in at least 3 or 4 different threads now :rofl:
     
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    all i really care about is who she's fucking when she's fucking me if I'm in a relationship with her
     
  20. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Exactly.

    As long as you're coming home to me each night, I don't care who you've fucked in the past or where I fall on within that list. :dunno:
     
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    I want to be part of the succesfull men. But then she might expect too much........
     
  22. Abomb

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    how do you respectfully 3 way on a chick? :bowrofl:

    even the decent guys in your example said "i didnt think she was serious"

    the guy didnt think she was serious because thats usually a whore thing to do :bowrofl:
     
  23. vodkacollins

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    i would rather his ex's all be gorgeous. i want to know he has taste and looks for quality. i dont want to be the one he stumbled upon by sheer luck

    and i wouldnt worry if the girls before me we cool or not. the bottom line is he isnt with them, he is with me. he obviously feels im cool enough to stick with, and that the girls prior were not cool enough to keep around
     
  24. antihero

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    last girl i had a 3 way with i watched the sunrise with, walked home, hugged and told her thanks for the memories. she was cool.

    edit: was on vacation and so was she, so it was very uncomplicated.
     
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  25. Abomb

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    :rofl:

    what sort of "memories" were you thanking her for? :naughty:
     

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