Would you (males) date this girl?

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  1. tarheel

    tarheel Guest

    Me: 21, college senior.
    Her: 19, college sophomore.

    About her:
    -Never curses
    -Never yells
    -Hilarious
    -Busts your balls in a teasing way
    -Loves to cook
    -Wants guns and a dog (same breed as you)
    -Same school as you
    -Sweet southern bell
    -Does not kiss until marriage or anything, despite having done it in the past
     
  2. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Fuck no are you crazy?
     
  3. tarheel

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    Just was wondering. I didn't commit. It was weird, we went on 6 dates, and on the 3rd she practically took me and made out with me the entire time. Then, she dropped how religious she is and has not budged despite talks and dates.

    I figure it's not worth it, not at my age.
     
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    Oh shit, I might not date a girl like that. But I'd definately want to fuck her. The religious girls are always freaks in bed. :rofl:

    So, she told you she doesn't kiss until marriage, but made out with you on the third date?

    How could you possibly trust anything that comes out of her mouth at this point?
     
  6. tarheel

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    I suppose I feel like she is practically everything I want in a girl except that, so she's not for me. However, I really am attracted to her. The other girls I've dated before her did very weird shit, so I'm turned off from those "bad' girls.
     
  7. tarheel

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    Well to be honest, I made the move on the 3rd date despite her kind of joking about it on the 1st date how she doesn't kiss. She wasn't expecting it, and I broke her, and each date after she said she wouldn't kiss.

    But, I see your point. She should have told me after the 1st kiss not to do it anymore if she was uber-serious.

    Trust issues.
     
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    Sounds to me like she is the worst kind of "bad" girl. You know, the type that likes to hide under the banner of being "good" but really don't hold themself to the standards they set for themselves.

    If it were me, I'd want to date someone a little more authentic than that. I mean, if you can chow down on a dick like it's a sausage mcmuffin, then own up to it. Don't sit there and tell me that you are a Jesus-freak pristine little princess when you secretly will let the football team run a train on you.
     
  9. tarheel

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    I'd normally agree man, but trust me, I had her in my room kissing me at one point and she stopped me from doing anything. Every date after she didn't kiss. She cited Bible passages at me and everything.

    She's legitimately crazy.

    PS - This is despite her saying she wanted me as her boyfriend. I told her I won't commit if we can't be physical (and I wasn't even talking about sex), and she didn't agree.
     
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    That would be kind of like having a girl best friend, just get friendzone by someone hotter.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    These two are solid deal breakers. I could not ever date a woman like this no matter how many other amazing qualities she had.
     
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    :werd: :rofl: The last one is a deal breaker for me... she sounds like a cool girl though... too bad about the whole brainwashing by religion thing... (that is an assumption I'm making on why she won't do anything until marriage, if I'm wrong... I apologize :hs:)
     
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    hello NO! i would not date a girl that wouldnt fuck until marriage much less even kiss.

    although... are you really sure that would happen? she may be saying that but temptation is a bitch.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Obviously a woman who doesn't want anything sexual before marriage is a deal breaker for most.

    A girl who won't curse though? What the fuck? I'm all about ethics and language. I can't even imagine dating a girl who wouldn't curse. I would argue with her non-stop about how stupid it is that she has problems with words. Fucking stupid cunt. I want to curb stomp her face while singing "Uncle Fucker".
     
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    Yeah I'd tell her she is perfect except that you can't have a relationship that doesn't have the physical aspect of it. You feel that its an important part of two people being together and that if they don't experience it before hand then it just can't happen.
     
  16. tarheel

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    Nope, you nailed it. She's perfect for me other than that. Doesn't drink much, rather chill and watch a movie than go to a party. Likes small gatherings than big social events.

    Really down to Earth.

    Oh well...hopefully I dn't regret it :rofl:
     
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    doesnt KISS until marriage? :ugh: :wtf:

    no one is ever going to marry a girl who wont kiss them until they are married
     
  18. tarheel

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    Right now I have her under the assumption we are friends. She didn't call me back for the first time the other day because I spoke to her in a way she "didn't feel comfortable with". But she, on the phone, admitted to liking it (it wasn't anything bad, just teasing talk). I found this out when we talked about it a week later on the phone.

    So, right now, we are "friends", I'll still chill with her but I may not even bother at this point.
     
  19. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    date yes, for how long? prob not very
     
  20. tarheel

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    :rofl: She said she cannot wait to the honeymoon to go wild. (not verbatim).

    :rofl: She said if she doesn't find someone who will marry at like 40/50/etc, she'll think it was God's purpose. :rofl:
     
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  22. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You know what happens to those people? They get married too young, pop out a million kids, and... well actually they usually end up pretty happy from what I've seen. Still, they're fucking insane.
     
  23. tarheel

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    :mamoru: I met her in the library using a "will you marry me?" opener. She's had ex's. One cheated on her, the other didn't work out. She used to do everything except sex. She said she still wants to with me, but every date since the 3rd she was all talk no game.

    That's the thing, I know if I commit to this girl and just ride it out I"ll be EXTREMELY happy. Pretty girl, too.
     
  24. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    she'll get married alright............think Fresh Prince of Bel Air episode.
     
  25. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    whoa! hmm......new revelations
     

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