would you ever date a girl that you had sex with the FIRST night you met her?

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  1. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    ok, so i went to a local bar & saw this girl i was pretty much instantly attracted to... cute, looked like a good/innocent girl, nice body etc. so i immediately go up & start talking to her & she still seems like a good girl/cool etc. we hang out at the bar the whole night & she comes back to my friends place w/ us..... next thing i know, she comes to me "you can come back w/ me if you want". I'm shocked at this, definitely did not expect just from looking at her & a first impression :eek4:

    so i'm drunk & i go back w/ her... I barely get my coat off & she wants to sex me up. so i oblige & we end up having sex that first night.

    my friend keeps telling me to date her, that shes awesome, cool etc.

    but i dunno, we have been texting some & everything but i just feel like that shocking impression of her wanting sex the first night would be in the back of my mind.

    would you or have you ever dated someone you sexed up the first night?
     
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    If they seemed cool enough, why not? You met up since?
     
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    kattacha New Member

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    I did, it didn't last too long :rofl:
     
  4. Alaya

    Alaya Active Member

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    case and point of everything I just said in that other thread :rofl:
     
  5. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    no, this just happened saturday night lol
     
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    kattacha New Member

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    Minus whale meet up again, nout to lose. :cool:
     
  7. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    sure..


    Provided there was an actual date, time to get to know each other, etc.. first. If it was last call and she went home with you, probably not.
     
  8. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    One of two things happened:

    1) You're one of 11ty other guys she's fucked on a first night

    or

    2) You and her had such a special connection and she "doesn't usually do this kind of thing"

    It's up to you to figure out which.
     
  9. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    she tells me she was in a long term relationship & shes been w/ less than 5 guys...... (x3?). I'm just so shocked over it b/c she looked so cute/pretty & innocent lol
     
  10. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Justin Niggalake New Member

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    i've sworn that I would never do this, but the girl i'm with now, i had sex w/ her within 24 hours of us meeting. it's a first for me :o
     
  12. Viper

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    I tried to date a chick who grabbed my balls within the first five minutes of meeting her. :dunno:

    She turned out to be batshit crazy though.

    To answer your question: yes, i probably would. You don't make judgements on someone based on a one night stand (imo). You make judgements on someone after you get to know them.
     
  13. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    You seem like you like her and think she is cool and that you had a good time together, just give it a try. Just because she slept with you the first night she met you doesn't mean she does it to every guy she meets, maybe she found you super hot and charming and just wanted to have you.
     
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    Its a new generation broseph. Sex is everywhere, its more common and more accepted. Dont base starting a relationship off of that, if shes a cool girl then hang out more and see what comes from there.
     
  15. antihero

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    sure. Why not?
     
  16. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    Im not disagreeing with you, but this girl went for the double whammy: first date sex and she was more aggressive about getting it then the guy.
     
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    you have nothign to lose :dunno:
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Perfect example right here of why so many women hold off on sex the first night.
     
  19. antihero

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    yep. you weird double standard fuckers mess it up for the rest of us
     
  20. jtrem

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    Who gives a shit, get to know her and see whats up. Obviously you don't know her well though so don't rush into anything.
     
  21. Holliday

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    EXACTLY.

    please stop this guys :wtc:
     
  22. Holliday

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    and to answer the question, yes I would
     
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    You had sex with her the first night of meeting her. Should she not date you?
     
  24. The Method

    The Method Lurker In Progress

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    I tried once.. ended up deciding she was a ho and not classy enough for me in the long run (double standard I know.. can't help it).
     
  25. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    notice how this transitions (with the word but)




    yes i think you should give it a shot, but really the problem is that already at this point (or when you made this post at 7:23pm) you already are telling yourself that it is a bad idea. your friends think you should BUT you dont so much?


    just from my own experiences, if the entire world thinks i should do something and i have even the slightest doubt, it will not happen, or if attempted, it turns out bad.


    convince yourself that it is a good idea, and give it a shot and let us know how it goes
     

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