FRK Would you break up with a chick who didn't swallow? v. shallow

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  1. Falconer

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    I never realized what a big deal it was to me until I was with a girl who didn't do it. She would let me cum in her mouth, so I can't complain that much, but she would spit it out which annoyed me to death.

    I don't mean to be shallow, but it ended up being a huge issue for me.

    I can honestly say I wouldn't date a chick who wouldn't take it in the mouth at all. It feels so good that it is something I want in a relationship, and if I didn't have it I would feel like I was missing out and I think I would begin to resent my gf.

    That might make me sound horribly superficial, but at the same time, I know chicks who won't date a guy who won't go down on her.

    And on that note, I LOVE going down on a girl, and I want a gf who LOVES going down on me.
     
  2. Yes have some!

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    i guess you are just going to have to get over it and grow up. Head is nice, but there are more important things in a relationship.
     
  3. Falconer

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    lol I am over it. I was just thinking about it and I thought I'd ask other FSers.

    I mean, would you date a chick who for whatever reason wouldn't French kiss you? Same principle, kinda.
     
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    I couldnt date someone who refused to eat my asshole out after i was analy gangbanged by 12 black dudes. It feels so good that it is something I want in a relationship, and if I didn't have it I would feel like I was missing out and I think I would begin to resent my bf.


    sexual compatibility is a big part of overall compatibility . :hsughno:
     
  5. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    My most recent didn;t swallow. i thought it would be more of an issue than it was.

    all it meant was that I had to wait for her to get me a towel on occasion.
     
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  7. Falconer

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    lollerskates.

    qft.
     
  8. Falconer

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    I think I should have called this thread:

    Guys and girls, list your sexual dealbreakers in a relationship.
     
  9. lauren

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    the bar for sexuality in a relationship should be set on an individual level, not a societal one, and it's not going to change without a willingness already present.


    also, try not to view sex acts in a linear fashion. sure, she might not swallow, but maybe she'll let you stick it in her butt?


    grammar edit :o
     
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    I married a non-swaller....well..I married a woman who didn't do a lot..and as time progresses, she is willing to do more and more (and we have only been married for two years)....so, just cause she doesn't yet, doesn't mean she won't...and yes, if you are willing to break up with someone because they don't swallow you are shallow and if I were a woman, I would like to know this ahead of time, so I could dump your ass ;)
     
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    LOL thsi would have resulted in me replying different yes ;)
     
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    personally...I think that'd be kind of shallow.

    it's JUST swallowing. She's still may love going down on you, her not liking to swallow has nothing to do with her loving to please you.

    You guys have a good relationship and may have great physical part of your relationship...but out of all that, she may not like swallowing cum.

    so you'd be willing to throw everything away because she doesn't like to swallow?
     
  13. Falconer

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    No, I wouldn't dump a girl because she didn't swallow.

    Didn't give head? Yes, I would dump her.

    Doesn't swallow? I'd be annoyed, but wouldn't dump her.
     
  14. affende

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    no i wouldnt dump her...

    sexual compatibility is a biggie for me...but some simple like that isnt going to break the deal for me.
     
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    rkddb Masturbation is on my mind OT Supporter

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    short answer yes long answer no....mosts chicks been thru some rry fucked up shit so u shouldnt push em
     
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    I wouldn't mind if she didn't swallow.. so long as she spit it out and let it ooze off her chin, drip onto her tits, and slide down her body

    :wackit:
     
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    I wouldn't date one that didn't swallow, I agree totally.
     
  18. giapia

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    why do some girls let the semen into their mouths...and then let it sit there until they find an appropriate place to spit it out? wouldn't it just be easier to swallow it? i mean, it's already touched your tongue and whatever :rolleyes:
     
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    Go eat some poop. Literally. Put it in your mouth. Then, when you spit it out, I'll ask "wouldn't it just be easier to swallow it? i mean, it's already touched your tongue and whatever "
     
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    Err... well I see your point but poop is full of bacteria and is literally shit and waste product. Semen is a natural and comparatively bacteria free liquid that is released naturally when coming. It's all in the girl's head I suppose...

    Oh, and I probably would be irked she didn't swallow (I've been spoiled thus far in life), but I could live with it if she was open to other things and still gave good oral. :dunno:
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    Good answer, love. ;)
     
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    Simple answer .. never touches my mouth ever.. i dont mind precum.. no biggie there.. big old wad of cum.. tastes like SHIT and i dont like it.. PUt it on my cheek tits ass back vagina (husband is fixed) i dont care as long as it is not in my mouth

    HOWEVER if it was deep in the back of the mouth like down my food tunnle i would not taste it problem solved..

    you people should be more open to other people seeing how THIS IS FS.. DIFFERENT STROKES for different folks.

    SHould you dump your GF because she wont swallow no.. if she does not like to swallow maybe you can find somewhere else to put it.. what would be ok..

    /drunkin post
     
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  25. JoJoBee

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    The real question, does she deep throat? KEKEKE Just kidding.

    That shouldn't be a reason to break up with her. I agree with other people, she might be willing to do things that others won't do and that is a sacrifice for you.
     
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