i've been with my gf (well ex now) for about 5 months... things were as perfect as can be. i can totally see myself... even marrying this girl.. in the future when everything was set. however.. 3 nights ago.. we were partying at a club.. and somehow i ended up kissing another girl. i don't know what to say.. i don't know why or how.. i agree i might have been slightly drunk but that's no excuse. i stayed with my gf till wednesday morning and although she was really upset.. we still were in each other's arm and all that. but she called me last night and i believe she ended it. Now, i don't want for that to happen. i know i messed up.. but nothing was premeditated. i had no ill intentions i just slipped up and made a really horrible judgement call. is there anything i can do to salvage this relationship? i take full responsibilities for my actions and i never hid or lied about anything. i just made a mistake.. but she says she can't look at me the same. and it hurts to know that i hurt her so badly. logically, i know there's a lot of fish in the sea and she tells me that. logically i know if i just move on... we'll be in our own worlds and i'm sure i can find another girl, but it hurts to know i failed when it came to her. i think i've said everything i could and i know for her to ever accept me again is a giant leap of faith and she would have to contradict everything logically. but i'm very i just wanted to share this with OT. so ot, what can i do to win/convince her back? and what can i do to change to avoid this ever happening again? Ps: i dont plan on drinking again... and i'm being serious about it. gonna start looking for aa chapters in my area to at least do something about it.