Worst gym day ever... had to cut it short it was so bad.

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  1. geekierthanyou

    geekierthanyou Crews: DSLR, Brolie, Classic Car, Gun, Zombie, Pro

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    My wife told me yesterday she wanted a divorce. We have been having some hard times, but I didn't think we were there yet. I was on the lat pulldown machine mid pull and just started crying.I don't know what to do... been married for almost 5 years, no kids thankfully. Anybody here been through a divorce before? What's it like? What can I expect? Pur, you have been through this before... any info? I'm all fucked up....
     
  2. Sgt. Friday

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    if you're looking for serious advice, post it in the Asylum.
     
  3. Blade

    Blade Time to swolercize

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    damn bro, sorry to hear that. hope everything works out for the better.
     
  4. evolude

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    sorry to hear. did getting in shape affect your relationship at all? getting more attention etc.

    there are several people here that can relate to you here. good luck
     
  5. knucks

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    This may be the best advice given by your.

    But sorry bro, best of luck :hug:
     
  6. Memor

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    I'm sorry man. I know others on here have been through this kind of thing...and yeah, worth posting in the Asylum.
     
  7. geekierthanyou

    geekierthanyou Crews: DSLR, Brolie, Classic Car, Gun, Zombie, Pro

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    The the asylum the, thanks. As for getting in shape affecting it, absolutely yes. When I lost all my weight she felt very insecure about herself and it caused a ton of problems. She actually stopped having sex with me because she was so self conscious about herself at that point. It's not the main factor, but I would say for sure it's a contributing factor
     
  8. Uglybob69

    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    Fuck man I'm sorry. Best of luck, it is possible you can work it out also.
     
  9. Tumbles

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    Just don't stop working out.
     
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    Girls are very intimidated by guys that look better than them. If this happens during a relationship I think it would be disastrous (eg: guy goes through transformation while she stays overweight or what not)

    Good luck bro
     
  11. KingGargantuan

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    see if you can get her to start with marriage counseling or even seeing therapists seperately before you go down the road with lawyers and separation agreements and divorce.

    and check out http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/ and all his other books.
     
  12. Abomb

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    that sucks to hear. Good luck with everything. dont stop lifting.
     
  13. Uglybob69

    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    get to the gym, it will give you like 2.5 hours of sanity after you go.
     
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    damn dude, that really sucks :hug:

    hopefully things only get better from here on out
     
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    I have a feeling she stopped having sex with you because she is interested in someone else. Has she been the type that has not gone long without a relationship?

    Nothing you can do really except pull a hotter chick with your new body and have the most fun of your life. Trust me, you will forget about this one that seems to be holding you back.

    Edit:

    Ahhhh you are in Covina, man there are soo many hot chicks out here.
     
  16. TheManLouisianaFace

    TheManLouisianaFace and decide!

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    Get back in the gym asap. You could use some endorphins.
     
  17. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Talk to a lawyer right now!

    Stop posting and call.

    This is the first and very most important thing.

    If you have a joint account I would move your monies before she does.
     
  18. Abomb

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    good advice :bowdown:
     
  19. Uglybob69

    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    Some chicks are just hyposexual, don't fill his head with shit. Let him work it out as he sees fit.
     
  20. Abomb

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    true. his post was A+ garbage
     
  21. geekierthanyou

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    I have an appt with the lawyer at noon today. I make double what she makes, and I just don't care about anything we have so she could take it all and I'd be fine. I just don't wanna pay alimony, I'll give her everything I own to stay away from alimony.
     
  22. geekierthanyou

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    We have both read that, and a ton of other books by him and recommended authors. Been in counseling since January. I'm pretty sure this is the end.
     
  23. Abomb

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    your state has alimony? :hs:


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    816 up in this bitch
  25. Abomb

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    move to texas when all this bullshit is over
     
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