Worried about sexing this girl.

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  1. Gandin

    Gandin New Member

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    I've been seeing this girl for two weeks. We're going to have sex, but she told me she's never had an orgasm... she was dating one guy for 3 years. That seems terribly fucked up and I'm kinda worried that I'm not going to be any better and it just won't work for her. I guess I'm looking for tips and whatever advice you can shoot my way. I'm already kinda self concious about this because the last girl I had sex with was a disaster. (Couldn't always get it hard).

    Tips?

    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

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    Search for David DeAngelo's "sex secrets" book.

    If not that, go to your local Borders or Barnes and Noble and buy a sex tip book.

    Lastly, search the vaginarium archives for some tips. Or just search google. There is tons of advice out there, you just have to look.
     
  3. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Start with foreplay. Lots of foreplay.
    Slowly move on to Oral. Start with your tongue then slowly proceed to fingers and combo the two (tongue & fingers)

    Is she open to trying new things?? If so, play with her anal spot and tease it while doing oral.

    See how wet she gets and you should be monie

    Why was the last girl a disaster?
     
  4. whitecouch

    whitecouch spendin' our golden years in OT Supporter

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    Foreplay and a bit of teasing would do wonders and I don't mean the verbal kind.
     
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    lauren Active Member

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    dated a couple of dudes for a long time, and never o'd. i wouldnt worry about it. has more to do with your personal chemisitry, than you or her individually.
     
  6. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    o'd??
     
  7. Duncan

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    orgasm'd
     
  8. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    She needs to learn how to have one by herself first. Tell her to lay in the bathtub on her back and put her clit under the running water until she gets off. If you've only been seeing her for 2 weeks and she's never had one then it's pretty unlikely that she's gonna have one the first time with you.
     
  9. crazyMichel

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    try it the oral way ;)
     
  10. Falconer

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    If she's never orgasmed then, if you can't get her off, it's not like you'll fail by comparison.

    What you should be worried about is if her ex got her off like 3 times per session. THEN the bar would be set high for you.
     

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