working the friend side until she breakups w/ her bf.

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  1. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    anyone just met a girl who you like but she has a bf? im trying to work the friend side until she breaks up with her bf. I wont cause the breakup but ill stick around in the picture until she does while still having my fun with other girls.

    any advice?

    ps. hater dont reply back to this thread unless you have something useful to say.
     
  2. russd10089

    russd10089 New Member

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    You'll most likely end up being the shoulder, while she goes on to other guys, where you'll be the shoulder again, and again, and again.

    I'm not being a "hater" it's happened to me, several times.

    Altho, she's now interested in me, but, i've lost interest in her, because of always being the one she cry's to.

    Not saying there's no hope, just most likely a probability of being her consultant, no matter what happens to her.
     
  3. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    yea but would this make a difference if im a new friend to her rather than an old friend.
     
  4. That's disrespectful to the boyfriend and deceitful to her. If you actually cared about her wellbeing you would sincerely want to be her friend. I highly suggest you reeevaluate your life.
     
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    Exactly, how would you feel if some dude did that to your g/f? I know I fuckin hated it. And ask yourself the question, if she'll leave her b/f with you this way, whose to say she won't do it again?
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    I'm in the middle of a seperation. Also, I have a long distance boyfriend who is moving here in a month or two. Last night one of my best male friends gave me a speedy "I love you" on the phone...He admitted to me the other night that he has had a crush on me for a long time...Him, & I work together too. :(
    Maybe someone could advise me on how to not hurt his feelings. I already tried telling him it's not going to happen. I really do like, & respect him. But, I've got more on my plate than I can handle right now.
     
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  7. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    haha keep it real!
     
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    He'll pretty much be suspicious and paranoid of any future male 'friends' she may have. Deservedly so, I guess.
     
  9. AmCo

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    you guys are right! ill try to be a true friend to her, i guess she deserve better than someone plotting behind her back.
     
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    wtf is up with this crap about him being a bastard? He already said he's not gonna try to break them up, what other choice is there besides waiting? Who is to say she's gonna break up with her man anyway.

    There's nothing wrong with waiting, but dont put too much into her. If you become too close of a friend now, you'll be doomed to stay that way. Be friendly, maybe hang out once in a while, but dont try to become her best friend or anything.

    Chances are you're shit out of luck though.
     
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    :rofl:

    You gots lots to learn kiddo

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    kaygee08 Get me a Jäger Drip, Nurse!!!

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    You may need your own thread for this one....:hs:
     
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    if some faggot did this to my gf, id beat the sh!t out of him
     
  14. AmCo

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    read my post! im not trying to break them up! but if she breakup w/ her current bf then ill see if im gonna have a chance.
     
  15. Neo22

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    And that would keep your girl from talking to him still wouldn't it? Fucking idiot.
     
  16. kingrukus

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    yes it would you fucking queer
     
  17. timberwolf

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    No one simply believed him considering he did mention ...he'd work the friend side until she breaks up with her bf.

    Look at his following post...

    Not that what he wanted to do was anything new or that we all likely have considered doing one time or another.
     
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    Stop trying to justify your fuck up.

    End yourself
     
  19. AmCo

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    feel the love in here. so many haters. if you dont like it then good for you. if you have something useful to say then go right away otherwise blah blah blah blah.
     
  20. TraumaMC

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    Get ready to wait a long long long time. In the meantime, it will suck because you will have feelings for her and it won't be recipricated.
     
  21. AmCo

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    yea i like her but im just going with the flow. always good to leave doors open for something maybe in the future.
     
  22. Neo22

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    Actually it would probably make you look like a jealous insecure fuckup. If a girl wants to talk to someone else they are going to regardless of intention. You CANNOT control a girl. Get a clue.
     
  23. Neo22

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    Emotional or physical?
     
  24. Faceless

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    LOL if you only wanted people that agree w/what you did you picked the wrong place to tell everyone. Idiot
     
  25. AmCo

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    i didnt ask anyone to agree with me. but if you dont have anything useful to say beside stupid remarks then stay away from this thread.

     

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