WOMEN: what kind of things do you like men to say IN BED?

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I'm sure if I made a thread asking men what they liked women to say it bed, it would get 1000 replies within 5 minutes :rofl:

    I'm hoping the women can contribute.

    What do you like to hear in bed? Words (give specific examples)? Moans? Dirty talk (give specific examples)? To be given commands? Specific phrases? Your name? "mom?" etc?

    I hear a big complaint with women is that men aren't vocal enough in bed, so now's your chance ladies: say what you ideally would enjoy.

    Go.
     
  2. john law

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    Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow man. Wow.
     
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  4. Amanda Ann

    Amanda Ann New Member

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    i personally like it when he starts talking about his day, the weather, or our weekend plans.. :hsugh:
     
  5. Amanda Ann

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    really though?? should we really have to feed you guys the lines to feed back to us in bed? :rofl:

    say or do whatever you want.. i'm going to get off regardless. just be in to it.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Honestly...I'm just not big on the talking in bed. It always comes off very "I've watched a lot of porn and it seems the girls like when the dudes say this shit."

    Me? I like talking about the weather.
     
  7. peoplescar

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    i'm sorry you can't reply to this


    well a little moaning would help just to know your into it... don't just lay there with that "oh look we're having sex again" look on your face.
     
  8. P-chan

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    I was having sex with my wife once at a friend's house. We had slept over and were supposed to be getting dressed to go to breakfast and wanted to have a quickie first. (Side note:My wife NEVER orgasms from quickies, she takes quite a while to "get going".)

    So we locked the bedroom door, but in order to disguise what we were doing, we just started having a random conversation while we were having sex, just talking about breakfast and the weather, just chit-chat bullshit. She had an orgasm in less than 5 minutes, just from this. She said it was because having a conversation took her mind off THINKING about having an orgasm or even enjoying what was going on. All her thoughts were about generating random conversation topics and she had an accidental orgasm :rofl:

    Anyway, another good thing to do is have some music. Just some random music to add some background noise and also so that you can have something to concentrate on if needed.
     
  9. Amanda Ann

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    well, yeah, obviously some sort of sign is good. conversation, not so necessary
     
  10. giapia

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    dirty talk. the more aggressive the better. i hate it when guys moan in a porn, but i like it when my man does. just about anything raunchy when it comes to command form.
     
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    oh commands are good, too. i like to be bossed around sometimes. sometimes i like to be the boss.
     
  12. Falconer

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    finally some serious answers.

    And who is this john law noob anyway?
     
  13. Amanda Ann

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    just a doucebag trying to get a rise outta everyone
     
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    i like to take tips from tone:

    "youz a nasty bitch aintcha?"
    "freak that bitch out."
    "imma hafta try dis at home."
     
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    My dude and I often crack a lot of jokes during foreplay or while we're getting naked. Mostly retarded puns and jokes that aren't funny at all out of the context of the situation...or to anyone else at all, honestly.
     
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    He was pretty silent at first, but I ended up getting him talking dirty. And now he doesn't stop. I love it. When he starts his dirty talk it's like instant orgasm. :bowdown:

    We like choking, she he will tell me how hot it is for him to be choking me, that he likes the noises I make, stuff like that. I also started saying "your little whore" in bed too, so he will tell me how much he loves fucking his little whore. :naughty: And other things like that.
     
  18. Falconer

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    :rofl: We've done that before

    Attn morons: "we" meaning me and my gf, not me and Kyoko.
     
  19. Phaedo

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    ...no one would have thought that.
     
  20. lawngn0me

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    I can just imagine this. "oh yeah. i bet you like that it's 70 and slightly overcast outside. mm. yeah. and slight chance of rain tomorrow"
     
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    commands are good...

    feel good noises (that does NOT read porn style moaning though).

    "You feel/smell/taste/look so good"

    and random combination of curse words...:mamoru: "...FUCK..." "Oh shit" "damn girl!"

    mmm..."I want you to cum for me baby"

    :dunno: stuff like that.

    Make SOME kind of noises to tell me you're enjoying yourself and ME.
     
  22. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    I like him to talk about how hot my pussy is. He says stuff like "Your pussy is so tight, so hot, like fire babe, ahh, I love how wet you always get for me."

    Just complimenting various body parts, like "your nipples are the perfect shade of pink, mmm".

    Other than that, talking about what he's going to do next, I'm going to pull out in a minute and fuck your ass, and of course I'm like, "nooo, you're too big for that" and he says "I'm going to anyway". Even if he doesn't in fact then put it in my ass, well, it's still really hot to hear/fantasize about.

    That's just me, though, I'm sure others are different. I also don't like the use of my real name in bed.
     
  23. Dahlia

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    I'm sorry, But I would burst out laughing if I heard that. :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  24. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Haha. Kinda me too ;). But I just like/appreciate that he says so much in bed so :)
     
  25. Falconer

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    Very high chance of chance of rain ON YOUR FACE!! IT'S CUMMING DOWN NOW!!! AHHHH!!!! :mamoru:
     

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