Women of the Vag

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by MattThom01, Jul 11, 2007.

  1. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Who of you are still here?

    Who of you have left?

    For those who left, why did you leave?

    What would make you come back?

    I am honestly just curious here, but the dynamic of the Vag recently has changed dramatically, and I'd like to know why.
     
  2. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    How would they see this thread if they left? :p
     
  3. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    i was going to say that :wtc:
     
  4. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    i'm in ur head, stealing ur thoughtz :run:
     
  5. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    you can be in me anytime :noes:

    :naughty:
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :naughty: :buttsex:
     
  7. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    I lurk but don't usually post. I contribute if/when I think it will help in some manner.
     
  8. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Same here. I don't like most of the advice given by the guys that make regular stops here but feel like it's useless to say anything most of the time.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Alaya is gone.
    silver8716283951986 is gone.
    Most probably just lurk.
     
  10. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Why is it useless??? Because the opposition is so vocal?

    Make your points and argue for them....that's one way to really test an idea, expose it to all and let them provide feedback on it. Try not to take the feedback personally....in other words, separate the idea from your sense of self-worth OR realize they are attacking an idea, not you personally.

    There is nothing that clarifies an idea quite like exposing it to critics that have no vested interested in making you happy.
     
  11. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Alaya is gone?
     
  12. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    But you realize bullshit is not a personal attack right??

    If it gets personal, one can correct and encourage them to stay focused on the issue at hand.....don't react to the personal attack, just refocus on the issue. If someone persists, there are mods that can be contacted.

    I thought I read where all subforums are to contain more mature, civilized discussions. Perhaps not to the level of the Asylum but certainly more so than the main board.
     
  13. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    I am surprised any girl would stay around with the attitude around here.
     
  14. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    First of all, I assume that throughout your post you are referring to a generic you....not me personally.

    But discussions drift, side points are made and clarified and it becomes more of an organic process than the static one you describe.....at least the interesting threads do, IMO.

    I agree that attacking other people is lame, this is why I usually call people on it and ask them to stop. Because the end result, if they don't stop, is a boring collection of same thinking people. Diversity is what makes things interesting and I wish them mods would clap down on the douchebaggery more quickly and severely.

    EDIT: Phone call made me do it.
     
  15. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    here :dunno:

    I can't blame some of the girls for leaving because it's just boys bickering most of the time
     
  16. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Hell I'm a guy and that's one of the reasons I don't post here as much. :)
     
  17. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Hmm...never thought of it like that. I'm not sure most people make the distinction between discussion threads and support threads. Perhaps I'm wrong.

    And yes....bickering and infighting are silly to me and also boring. I usually skip over most of that crap and just move on. Life is short.
     
  18. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    who are the mods of this subforum anyhow?
     
  19. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    We just have one super mod for all the forums it looks like.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well have you seen her post?
     
  21. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I feel like it's useless because the regulars in here seem so set in their ways that it's frustrating to even talk with them. I'd rather keep my mouth shut, know that I'm happy with my relationship and my take on life, and hope that they figure things out one day. It's not worth letting others personally attack or mindlessly argue with me.
     
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  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I get that way sometimes as well, and I've been on here for months. To top it off I am a woman and if it happens to be one of those topics the guys feel they know better than anyone else they'll just bash my opinion. So I figure "ah fuck it" a lot of time.

    Hell, in the other thread they all asked me to explain what things said were sexist, because none of the men thought there were sexist comments made...they were practically egging me on. Did I answer? No, because I knew no matter how good my response was they'd all just fucking laugh or say some asinine response. Sometimes at the end of the day I just hold my opinion in because I don't feel like dealing with the crap.
     
  24. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    :werd: I'm sick of trying to discuss things with those in here and getting responses like, "All women are like this..." or "All men should do this..." Personally I go against most of the stereotypes in here and I don't agree with the majority of the dating/relationship advice given. But saying something different that the popular views here has proven fruitless.
     
  25. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Exactly! People so close minded like that aren't even worth dealing with. I'm open to other people's ideas but I'm not going to try to discuss them if I know that the other person isn't. I HATE all the generalizations made in here but I know that if I say anything, I'll end up arguing with people that really aren't worth my time.
     

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