Women of OT I need some questions answered...

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  1. shadowoperative

    shadowoperative Rawest asian alive, so raw they call me sashimi.

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    heres the story

    Theres a girl I like and she works with me. To me she is, well...amazing and beautiful. She's just as silly, playful, and random as me. She's petite a with a good body and is younger than me. Anyways...im giving her a ride home todayand we were talking about work and whatnot and she starts telling me that she got into an argument with our manager so being nosy i asked what it was about. She said "we argued about me liking you..." I look at her and say what but she goes and says haha just kidding i just wanted to see what you would say. So i did the oh you got me laugh...and took her back.

    so my question is, would a girl really just say that out of nowhere or does it really mean something? Or am i just taking this out of proportion?
     
  2. shadowoperative

    shadowoperative Rawest asian alive, so raw they call me sashimi.

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    yeah we goof off alot at work but also talk a lot too.
     
  3. MattThom01

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    better question is: "why would she be talking with the manager about who she likes?"

    A) It's unprofessional, that's her private life, no need to talk about it at work.
    B) If she's that chatty/friendly with the manager, anything you two do together will be made gossip between the two of them.
     
  4. veonake

    veonake OnT poster, OT lurker

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    I think it's also possible she really didn't talk to her manager about who she likes but just said so to gauge his reaction...
     
  5. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    true. I didn't realize it at first, but this is probably just a high school job or something, so I guess it doesn't matter.
     
  6. Viper

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    Are you kidding me? She pretty much just gave you the "COME ON ALREADY AND ASK ME THE FUCK OUT" signal.

    No, a girl would not say that unless she DID like you and wanted to both drop the hint that she likes you (without the fear of rejection) and to gauge YOUR reaction.

    So, please, do yourself a favor and ask this girl out NOW, next time you see her.
     
  7. kiri

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    there's like a 99% chance that she likes you

    the other 1% is that she's crazy
     
  8. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Oh, and while you are at it, get your head out of the clouds and bring her down off the pedastal you have her on. "Amazing and beautiful"? WTF, dude, she's not a piece of medieval art.
     
  9. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    fixed
     
  10. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    That one went sailing right over your head. :rofl:
     
  11. shadowoperative

    shadowoperative Rawest asian alive, so raw they call me sashimi.

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    i might but theres a problem she already has a boyfriend...i guess i should've mentioned this.


    im not good with signals at all, im more the forward direct type.
     
  12. Viper

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  13. Viper

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    In that case, you are friendzoned.
     
  14. Toroweedeater99

    Toroweedeater99 Registered E-thug

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    1st of all beware of dating/fucking/hooking up with a co-worker. Be ready if things go bad to look for other employment especially if she is having "we argued about me liking you..." Wouldn't take too much too "arguing about how much of a asshole" you are to your boss and make things very bad.
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    Do you know the boyfriend?
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Do you not have a non-work-relationship with any of your co-workers?

    One of my closest girl friends is a girl from work.. I'm her boss and we talk about relationships and private life shit all the time.


    I met my best friend at work when I was his boss.
     
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    nvm, she just wants attention. sry lolz
     
  19. jimmyjoe

    jimmyjoe Across 110th Street, You can find it all in the st

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    old sayin here...."don't get your honey where you get your money" but if you don't give a shit about the job, and the BF.
     
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    ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT!!!

    Stay AWAY from this chica because she is riding the drama train!
     
  21. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Keyboard jockeys have limited real world experience.
     
  22. shadowoperative

    shadowoperative Rawest asian alive, so raw they call me sashimi.

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    no

    fuck

    weak...i hate drama. but I mean i still like her so it'll be hard to stay away when we both work with each other.
     
  23. forgotmyname

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    lmao most of you people get it so easy and fail to aknowledge it. :hs:
     
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  25. MattThom01

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    Not yet. The new job is actually the first one I have had where I interact with more than a few other people.

    I'm not weirded out about being buddies with a co-worker, I'm weirded out that the girl could have POSSIBLY been talking with her supervisor about liking a co-worker. Seems like it would be something you talk about outside of work, not during. Just seems like an opening for massive gossip.
     

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