Women like a man who "knows how to cry," yet...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Anonymous User, Feb 25, 2005.

  1. Every single woman who I've opened up to, become emotional in front of, confided in and shown my weak/ sensitive side to has pretty much cast me aside because they perceived that display to mean that I was depressive, insecure and had low self esteem. (Note: I've never cried in front of a woman, but I've come close.)

    They want us to cry? Bullshit! If anything, they're selfish and want us to cry over their feelings instead of ours. (Someone on here said that they dislike that women want us to comfort and calm them where they're angry, yet when we're angry, they flip out, get uncomfortable and anxies and want us to stop.) They could really give a shit if we're feeling sad or defenseless; they want us to buck-up and be a man. Dennis Miller said it best, "A woman wants a man who knows how to cry. Trust me, ladies, you don't. After thirty seconds, you'll be saying, 'Stop crying, you pussy!'"
     
  2. Dogz

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    Nothing wrong with crying infront of your Mrs i have before!

    She says i make her feel safe as i can not only handle myself but i can look out for her and have done on numerous occasions. So it doesnt make me feel any less of a man to let a few tears go!

    It all depends on what you cry about, a lost relative etc then fair enough.....but if your crying at Disney films thats when you know your a pussy ;)
     
  3. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: It all depends on how you act. If you act like a pussy emo fag all the time then, no girls won't want you cause you'd just be a wimp. Letting your deepest feelings out sometimes is fine when you're in a relationship but don't do it with a girl you don't know that well. You might also want to look at exactly how you are expressing your "emotional" side. Most guys that are really emotional or like to bring out their weak side do have some kinda of depression/insecurity problem or else they just like to be the submissive one.
     
  4. Leaden Grudge

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    I guess women like a man who knows how to cry but doesn't!
     
  5. Mugwump

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    Haha, probably. :hs:
     
  6. Original

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    It's important to be sweet and sensitive, but you can't be emo and must hold your own :fawk:

    Basically a very nice guy with a big ego, which doesn't come by often :o
     
  7. Isolt78

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    It's almost scary how right you are...:ugh:
     
  8. Mugwump

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    Yeah, it's just bullshit when women talk about how emotionally distant their men are, yet they call us weaklings when we finally open up. Like what was said, I think they just want us to be emotional for them.
     
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  10. Trickypants

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    Perfect answer.../thread
     
  11. weakone

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    I've seen my SO cry and I've never called him a weakling. In fact, I've commended his strength for having the ability to get emotional in front of me, because most guys have the hardass personality they think they're expected to have nowadays. :dunno: Maybe it's just me, but I don't find him weak when/if he cries.
     
  12. BradUF

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    If you are in a LTR then its ok but if you are just seeing a girl dont do it.
     
  13. JordanClarkson

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    It's not that they want a type of guy that cries. What they want is perfection in a guy. When I showed this to my ex she said "wow that's a great list" :rolleyes:
    http://nomarriage.com/perfectguy.html
     
  14. I've seen my man cry a few times....but they were for very reasonable reasons. It really all depends what they're crying over and how often. If a guy crys all the time over lame things then yea he's a pussy. but if they only cry once and a while i won't hold it against them.
     
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    its fine for guys to cry...my ex cried cause he saw me with my brother who he has never met & thought it was a guy i was seeing..that's not ok...i love when my SO tells me things or how he feels but crying should be saved for something sad
     

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