Women improvement/PUA threads...let's see them!

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  1. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Seriously, if the guys can make all those threads while occasionally coming off as demeaning women, why can't the women do the same thing?

    Fight fire with fire.

    It should be entertaining at least.

    Ladies, start posting!
     
  2. I'm going to leave this open, if it turns into a bashing thread it will be closed.
     
  3. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I know some girls who could definitely benefit
     
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    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    we have too much class for that
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    The problem is there are plenty of desperate men lined up to date just about any girl, so they have no reason to improve.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    To improve yourself?
     
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    to demean men

    i don't believe in that PUA stuff
     
  8. MattThom01

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    heck, the thread doesn't even have to be about women improvement...how bout it could also be a place for the women to find and point out/list the various posts where they are being disregarded/bashed for just being a woman?

    That way, the list would be right there, and you AS A MOD, could examine them and see if they were crossing the line or not.

    I do think some of the recent threads have been very one sided/male dominated, and they could stand to be looked at to see if they are taking it too far.

    TO THE GUYS:

    This is simply a way for the women to present their evidence to see if it supports the claim that they are being mistreated.
     
  9. Yail Bloor

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    Neither do I.

    Although it does work.
     
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    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    it may work for some

    but i'm not gonna turn to some training material to tell me how to pick up a woman/man
     
  11. Yail Bloor

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    You have no need to, because of the reason I listed above.
     
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    The reverse of that is true, also. Any guy can just drop his standards and find some desperate farm animal of a woman to be with.
     
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    i don't go after desperate men

    i have standards
     
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    And it happens with alarming frequency.

    Toeshoes has boyfriends, does she not?
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    so you "go after" men?

    that means you do pick-up, right? ;)
     
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    i pick up

    but i do what i want and feel...things that come naturally

    i don't think about how I'm going to pick up someone; as extensively as these PUA articles mention
     
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    How extensively then?
     
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    Who's we? Men have class too


    I'd like to hear you define improve. Sleeping with everyone is an improvement? Right, I'm twisting your words?

    To improve yourself? There are different ways to improve oneself other then becoming a swinger.

    Have you ever had the thought, maybe some people don't find it interesting or even want it? Maybe people want something that has meaning to them? Don't think you know what people want, or that they all think alike.



    And there are plenty of desperate girls lined up to date just about any boy

    There's more to attracting someone then just looking good. If you're a guy with little self security you're going to keep going "Yeah.. uh huh, right! I know" and smile with her regardless what dumb and uninteresting things she says, cause she is actually giving you attention which you can't shove away. It doesn't matter what she says. So yes, just smile and nod and some guy will probably like you for awhile. Do you honestly believe a girl with little self security wouldn't do the same to a crazy good looking guy actually talking to her? Screw the personality right? It's the status and being with someone "hot"

    Then there's people who have standards, know what they want and are confident and.

    Charisma.. do you think it's all about looks? Charisma is appearance, a drawing personality, good natured, seduction and being appealing all together. It's not just smiling and looking stupid.

    Charisma is what draws me to someone and more importantly it is what keeps me interested. I wouldn't put up with this PUA bs for 1 minute. And neither would any self respecting man. That's why most women don't do it, unless they are looking for a quick wam bam.





    It works getting yourself laid, and that's it. And I'm sure you comfort yourself with the thought that you control it, choose when and where it ends when you lose interest. But I wonder, are you afraid you matter as little to the woman as she does to you? Scary thought.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Here's a quote directed at men that I think probably applies to you, SJ.

    'Life is tough though, and as life hands you a few bumps and scrapes you come up with logical rationalizations for why you should feel confident.

    It's pretty messed up, because why should you need a STORY to feel confident or content???

    It's a DEFAULT STATE!!

    Still, that's how it is for most people, and they're constricted by their big cumbersome egos.

    Ever wonder why your buddies won't study how to be good with women??

    It wouldn't align with their "story" of how cool they are.

    Ever wonder why they won't approach women??

    Again, being blown out wouldn't align with their "story" of how cool they are.'

    SJ, do you think that by "training" you would be admitting to some deep flaw in yourself?
     
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    If having a lack of training to use something like a gun is a flaw, just to make a point, then so be it.

    Flaws can most often be a matter of perspective


    Edit: What's a flaw to you can be a... Whatever is opposite to flaw to someone else (Can't think of word)
     
  21. Yail Bloor

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    Yes, you are.

    Nowhere do I advocate sleeping with a high number of women.

    Myself, I have been with less than one woman for every year I've been having sex.

    I'm not a swinger, and do not plan on becoming one.

    If that's what some people choose to do, I have no issues with it.

    I aim to appeal to a specific audience: men who are not experiencing the results with women that they want to experience.

    If they want to go to bars and get laid a bunch, I'm not the guy to talk to.

    But if they want to learn how to approach women, get their phone numbers, and date them, then I'm the guy who can help. I've already helped several men, and I hope to continue to do this.


    Yes. Those are the ugly and/or fat girls.

    Now it sounds like you've actually read my posts, because I preach this all the time.

    I honestly have no idea what you are talking about here. This is so muddled I can't follow it. Remember, I'm a simple guy.

    I agree, although I'm not sure where you are going with this.

    What have I ever said to indicate its all about looks?

    Absolutely.

    What is your gender?


    My goal has never been to "get laid."

    Even when I was a horrible AFC (average frustrated chump), I still got laid.

    Like I said, sex is a basic function, and having it is no big deal for me, and it never has been.
     
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    I'm working on self improvment as of now.
    1. Study more and better
    2. I'm trying to eradicate the last bits of social anxiety I have.
    3. Stop being afraid of things (I got shot at a few weeks ago and it really did a number on me)
    4. Take more control over my social life.
    5. Gain some freaking weight.

    As far as PUA goes, men are easy, I don't think women will ever need "PU Artistry." if I'm interested in a guy, I generally say "hullo, my name is Morgen" and proceed fromt there.
     
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    woah, you got shot at? scary...and I've seen some pics of you, unless you've lost a bunch of weight, i don't think you need to gain any.
     
  24. Yail Bloor

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    Awesome :bigthumb:

    Why are you getting shot at?

    :werd:

    Most men are very easy.

    Which is why its so effective when a man such as myself is a challenge and plays hard to get.
     
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    I have lost a bunch. About 10lbs, which is a lot on my frame. My goal is to start working out, and gain a little bit of muscle tone.
    Yeah, I was eating a midnnight snack at a coffee shop, sitting in front of a wall sized windown, and a stray bullet came in about five inches aboce and to the left of my head, and hit the kitchen a few feet behind me. It has me really jumpy around loud noises :( It sucks as I grew up around guns, and generally enjoy them

    Edit: to the right of my head, not left.
     

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