Women: how farward are you when trying to pick up a guy?

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How do you usually act towards a guy you really want to talk to?

  1. Really shy.. Can't help but hide in a corner/look at my shoes

    2 vote(s)
    16.7%
  2. ill try to posistion myself in his path, maybe even make eye contact

    2 vote(s)
    16.7%
  3. eye contact and a smile.. maybe a little hair flip, or other physical show

    3 vote(s)
    25.0%
  4. Ill initiate conversation... what time is it, or do you have a lighter, etc...

    1 vote(s)
    8.3%
  5. I will blatently show interest.. you're hot, hey, hows it going... etc...

    4 vote(s)
    33.3%
  1. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    When you see a guy you like and wish would talk to you.. what do you do? do you wish you were bolder? when you were bold did it work out well for you?
     
  2. magik

    magik New Member

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    i don't make contact when guys, or anyone really. i'm incredibly shy and i have anxiety lol.

    the last time i approached a guy i liked in a bar, i ended up being so nervous that i spilled a beer on his crotch. horribly embarassing, needless to say we never spoke again hah.
     
  3. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    In my experience, women rarely try to pick up guys overtly.

    When a woman is interested in a man, typically she will place herself close to him so that he may start a conversation.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't know if any of those really apply to me. But I am pretty forward.
     
  5. antihero

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    what kind of stuff do you do?
     
  6. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    Regardless of my attraction towards the guy, if he approaches me/looks at me I get nervous and run away. Anxiety FTW.
    If i think hes cute/hot and he seems like he would be interested but HE is too shy to come after me...basically if he is non threatening, I am VERY forward
     
  7. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I've never tried to pick up a random guy before. I don't go chat with complete strangers unless I have a reason to, so just seeing a good looking guy would not make me want to go and try to pick him up. I might go initiate a conversation if it was at work though because that would be a reason to chat without it just being a pick up.
     

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