WOMEN: How do you do with being told "don't cum until I say so"?

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WOMEN: How do you do with being told "don't cum until I say so"?

  1. Not gonna happen... I'm gonna cum based on stimulation regardless of what the guy says to do

    6 vote(s)
    8.8%
  2. Sometimes... I can supress the orgasm reflex to an extent, but then sometimes I can't get it back

    7 vote(s)
    10.3%
  3. Fucking hot... I can hold out, despite intense stimulation, until he tells me to cum, and then OMG!!

    4 vote(s)
    5.9%
  4. Never been in this situation/never tried

    12 vote(s)
    17.6%
  5. I'm a guy

    39 vote(s)
    57.4%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    ...or something along those lines.

    It's obviously a power/control play, but I'm more curious as to your overall physiological response.

    Poll coming.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Never been told that, but I have a good feeling it wouldn't go over well...

    When I get to orgasm I can't be stopped. If you do stop me I will almost never get it back right away; then I will be pissed.
     
  3. CorpseStreet

    CorpseStreet New Member

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    I voted that I've never been in this situation but if I guy told me not to I probably wouldn't listen. I'm pretty dominant so in the past I have been the one to tell my partner that they can't cum until I say so.
     
  4. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I honestly can't imagine a guy having the self control to pull that off.

    If I'm getting stimulated, I'm going to cum. You can say "don't cum" all you want but guess what, my dick doesn't give a shit, I'm gonna cum.
     
  5. CorpseStreet

    CorpseStreet New Member

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    Well alot more goes into it like getting him close to finishing and then slowing things down so he doesn't and repeating this process.
     
  6. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    voted that ive never been in the situation, but if i ever was, i wouldnt be able to stop it once it started.
     
  7. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    I think a guy saying that is laughable. I would definitely cum anyway.
     
  8. Dahlia

    Dahlia Active Member

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    I've had him say that once, I said I was getting really close and he stopped and said that he wasn't going to let me yet. I was pissed but it was all in good fun. :dunno: When he finally let me have one it was sooooo nice. But I usually have multiples with him anyways so it's not just one and its over.

    But sometimes I'll be close and he will stop the rhythm and I won't be that close again, I'll have to work back up to it.
     
  9. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Well I can't orgasm with intercourse alone.:wtc: But with oral, I can definitely hold out. In fact, I do it all the time! There is point after which I know I can cum any second I want, but if I hold it, it just makes it waaaay more pleasurable. I mean the pleasure that I get from that point to actual cumming is not that different from the pleasure of an orgasm. Sometimes it's soo good that I can't help but cum tho.
     
  10. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Not gonna happen... I'm gonna cum based on stimulation regardless of what the guy says to do

    I try to hold out. :rofl::rofl: I really do. But if it's gonna happen then I don't have much control over that.
     
  11. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    You don't tell the girl she can't cum like 2 seconds before she actually cums, obviously that's too late :rofl:
     
  12. Falconer

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    Can you cum from clit stimulation during sex? Like if the guy is sitting back rubbing your clit with his thumb while he's fucking you, or during doggy style?

    Women have told me that even during a clit orgasm, having a dick inside you feels awesome.

    I know exactly what you mean about that :big grin:
     
  13. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Yes, I can cum if clit stimulation is also involved.

    :werd: :werd: :werd: ......:werd:

    In fact, if I am playing with my clit and a dick is inside of me, I feel the orgasm mostly inside than outside, so in a way it more feels like a vaginal orgasm than a clitoral:big grin:
     
  14. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    sigh, i know that. but there is a difference between "mm, this feels good" and "climbing my way up to orgasm." the last phase can last a while, and if he told me at any point, i most likely would not be able to prevent it
     
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    Why would a guy ever tell a woman to not cum? Women can have multiple orgasms, he should be encouraging as many as he can...
     
  16. Dahlia

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    Because when you keep getting close then stopping when you finally do its :eek3::bowdown:
     
  17. Falconer

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    Power/control play.

    Giving another person control over your orgasm can be a turn on for some people.
     
  18. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    So can shitting on your partners chest. I think that should be your next poll :mamoru:
     
  19. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    "don't shit on my chest until I say so" :rofl:
     
  20. Thelonius

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    What if I slapped your whore face when I said it? The burst of pain would probably pull you back from the edge.
     
  21. Viper

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  22. kopetzki

    kopetzki Banned

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    i can have sex for fucking hours without cumming, but the minute the girl says something like "don't cum" or "i'm going to cum" or anything with the word cum, i'm blowing a load that same exact moment, i can't help it
     
  23. Toxica

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    I'm the opposite. With oral it's hard as hell for me to hold off. My bf can make me cum in like under a minute. I have to literally grab his hair and tug him away from me or squirm to get him to stop lol. Feels too good.


    With sex I'm kind of like IWYWB when she said "Never been told that" and "If you do stop me I will almost never get it back right away; then I will be pissed."
     
  24. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: probably not.


    * amended. *

    Definitely not. If you like to get smacked around during sex then that will only make you cum harder :rofl:
     
  25. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I would find it pretty hot, but a lot of times if I lose it, I lose it so I will hold out as long as I can but if I feel it slipping away I will go for it.

    Voted Sometimes
     

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