I honestly have to initiate any sexual contact with my GF if we are together. She almost never initiates anything. So basically, if I don't make a move, or start being sexy, nothing will ever happen. We have been together for 1.5 yrs and she has only once initiated anything. Is this normal? I've asked her about it before, and she just says that "she is working on it". She is not a rape victim or anything weird like that. Is she just completely insecure or what? How do I fix this? Do I just not try anymore to push her into making a decision or what? Help!