Women are a lot more inclined to text message new men...

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  1. Mugwump

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    The last two women who I've initially given my phone number to have text messaged me within a few days, yet I've never had a woman call me first to talk (I've given them my number and then later had to push a little to get theirs).

    Therefore I <3 txt msging! It's a great tool for the dating scene.
     
  2. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    I love text messaging, alot of girls are too shy to say something to my face and they get it out in text messages. i have ALOT of dirty messages on my phone from females.
     
  3. Malicious

    Malicious Whats in your hatch?

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    i prefer it for intial follow up bc i know im not getting in the guys way. if hes busy, he can answer at his convience. when im calling a guy, i feel like i am cornering him.

    just my insecurity/social anxiety kicking in.
     
  5. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I prefer text messaging, less evasive, and you get the point across quickly.
     
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    I totally agree with this. For some reason, girls just don't like to call guys the first time. It has happened several times recently that I've given a girl my number, and instead of calling, she'll txt me. It doesn't bother me at all.

    But for me, I'd never txt a girl that I got a number from the first time I was contacting her. I always call, and if she doesn't answer then I'll just leave a message.
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I usually don't take numbers from men. I say to them, oh you can just have mine :)
     
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    hi can i have yours? :drool:
     
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    exactly! i get sooo nervous calling a guy, like im bothering him or its a bad time or something. id rather he call me.
     
  10. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Yea, its just like IM'ing when that was the 'in' thing. Now its text messaging. Its easier to talk to someone when you dont have to hear thier voice and know they cant hear yours. It causes problems later though, people tend to be a little different through text messaging, and then when you expect something and get someone who is still shy...its a dissappointment.
     
  11. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Personally I h8 text messaging, I h8 having to sit there and type all those fucking letters by using a numerical only keypad.
     
  12. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Haha, you are a little far from me ;) I spent a week in Sydney last September, I loved it there!
     
  13. RX7BabyGirl

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    I have absolutely no problem calling guys for the first time...but I've always been a phone person and never really have used text messaging.
     
  14. JordanClarkson

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    I love text messaging too mainly because I hate talking on the phone due to having a speech impediment. On the phone I make an effort to accentuate words properly which takes longer and makes me seem like I'm retarded :hsd:
     
  15. My phone's text messaging SUCKS but a lot of my girlfriends start out talking to a guy thru texting just because its easier and less awkward...you have time to think of what to say instead of sitting in silence
     
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    it's like you're showing interest but not too much. and then it's up to the guy to answer if he wants. but it does take too long to type out everything with just a number pad. good thing my phone has that word completion thing.
     
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    I met one who didn't like texting at all. I think I sent her 3 messages over the course of a few weeks and it was still too much for her :greddy:

    I hate SMS conversations but the odd message back and forth is fine by me.
     

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