Hi there, long time lurker, first time poster. So here’s my problem, I met this woman online that I really click, only problem is, she is having major problems finding a babysitter, so we haven’t been able to go out yet. She’s meh on the idea of the kid meeting me on the first date so me going over there when her son is awake to do something isn’t really that good of an option. She’s still a little on the fence since she has a kid and is a bit older. I want to do something that a)shows I appreciate the fact she has a kid, b)respects the fact she’d like to keep me out of sight of the kid for the first little while, and most importantly, c)something that wouldn’t require a babysitter. Any help/ideas would be appreciated.