Will she get over the pain of butt sex?

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  1. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    Today she let me put it in her bum for the first time ever, it felt great for me but I only got a few pumps in before she made me take it out because of the pain. Will it always hurt her like this? Or if we try it a few more times is there a chance it will get her used to it and she'll feel less pain?
     
  2. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    I'm sure, I never got past the intial pain and shock of it all!

    Of course my ex wasn't the most gentle about it either ......
     
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    moroe lube.
     
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    MamaDukes New Member

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    The initial time really hurts, but after a while it doesn't hurt as much:naughty:
     
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    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    mucho lube, do positions where she can control the speed and depth (her on top, cowgirl style), and maybe do some research online as to other ways to ease it.

    At least she's willing to try, eh. There are girls out there that just say "F that, never!"
    That = bad sexual attitude!
     
  7. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    :werd: I was fucking shocked when she said I could do it...I've brought it up before and she acted like it would never happen but then I was sexing her and she said she wanted me to cum in her bum. :naughtyd:
     
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    you need to use silicone lube.
     
  9. Ducky_Fresh

    Ducky_Fresh New Member

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    Asssssssssssssssssssssstroglide!
     
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    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    seriously.


    more girls need to lighten up and explore some.
     
  11. Inthemidstofinsanity

    Inthemidstofinsanity New Member

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    If you don't know what you are doing then she won't "get over her pain" until she finds a guy who does know how to do it or you learn . . . suggestion-read up on it
     
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    +1. or try it in the shower
     
  13. Shelby500

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    It takes about 10-15 minutes to get my girls booty ready... but once i'm in there you still gotta be slow till you see that shes ready for it all
     
  14. Penny1484

    Penny1484 cute but kind of evil

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    fuck that. i'm not interested in doing that in the least, and i'd say that my sexual attitude is just fine,thank you. what you are confusing is some people's personal sexual preference. not everyone likes certain positions, not everyone likes certain technique, not everyone is into freaky shit, and so on. just because i won't ever let it inb sure as hell doesn't mean that im a prude, and i can garauntee you that my S/O would agree with me!
     
  15. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    :gtfo: prude, you're SO lies to you so you don't completely cut him off from teh puss.
     
  16. Tornado6

    Tornado6 When the wind set down in funnel form and pulled y

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    Buy her a butt plug. You can start with a baby one and move up, or get one that has a gradual increase in size. It doesn't have to be exactly the same size as you, but it does need to be bigger than just a finger. (Because you want to get a penis in there, not just your finger.)

    She can either play with it by herself in the shower, or you can play with it together. I'd say by herself she'll be much more relaxed, but I know some women aren't comfortable with that. Anyway, it helps so much to get used to the sensation with something she can control entirely by herself, as opposed to a boyfriend wildly flailing away at her bum. ;)
     
  17. Ducky_Fresh

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    ALso, I forget the damn website. But, there's a lot of factual medical information on how anal sex actually works, scientifically speaking.

    Basically, there are two muscles. One she can control, and one she cannot! Until the one she cannot becomes relaxed while having something in it, it will always be uncomfortable for her. You will have to "train" this muscle on a regular basis. Actually, she probably should do that in the shower each day or something. Eventually, her ass will be used to having something in it and not "freak out" and make it hurt. :)
     
  18. GMACK24

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    Yeah use some lube.
    A girl I know told me she just let her husband bang her in the arse.
    she said it hurt like hell but she just bit the pillow.
    and the pain went away in a few minutes.
    then he camein da poopah.....

    Cliffs.
    Buy some Lube and tell her you want to try it again.
    also a few drinks wont hurt
     
  19. devildoll3584

    devildoll3584 New Member

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    i just recently let my boyfriend put it in the bootay... i find that if she is on top, facing you, pain is much less. i still cant let my bf pound away at it from behind though... that hurts :sad2:
     
  20. selfpollution

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    I never got over the initial pain of it. But my partner was a little rough about it I think that is why he got transferred to another diocese in New England.
     
  21. chica&buddies

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  22. Ducky_Fresh

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    Tell me you are a nunn!

    *shudder*
     

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