So my wife just told me that she isn't happy in the marriage and wants a divorce. We have been together over 6 years now and this has totally thrown me for a loop. She says she still loves me and cares about me but is not IN love with me anymore. I asked her when these feeling started and she told me it has just been a few months. We don't really fight at all either. This was really a big shock for me. I'm sure that she isn't seeing anyone else either. She is only 25 and has always lead a sheltered life. She told me that marriage just isn't for her right now and she wants to live her life. I really think that since she never really experienced the college life that this is that time now but at the same time it really sucks for me! Any thoughts on how to deal with this bombshell??