Wierd Situation?

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  1. God of Thunder

    God of Thunder New Member

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    So I started talking to this girl who works at a Casino. She is a waitress there. Anyway, I talk to her get her number, call her make a date for a week late to go to a bar, play some pool, and talk. We go, have a great time, drink, etc etc etc, and at the end of the night she kisses me several times. She calls me later that night to tell me she had a great night.

    So right about here i'm thinking everything was good, and I wasn't exactly sure how much I liked her, nontheless, in my feeble attempt at asking her out, I said something along the lines of "would you like to go to a baseball game" because lets face it, its a good date because you can talk, etc, plus I get free tickets.......

    So anyway, the next wednesday we go to a baseball game, and i'm starting to become a bit more attracted to her, she kisses me still, and we held hands several times, which I thought was a bit too soon.........but she held mine, so I figured I would go with it. So anyway, after that, we go to the mall and were walking around and she brings up something about sex at spencers, and I said I couldn't believe she knew that. It was about what a certain product did. so playfully later, I took a picture of her clevage (i'm wondering if she is mad about this) and laughed, but I deleted it. Anyway, we leave the mall, I drop her off, and she kisses me twice and says i'll talk to you tonight.

    She sends a text about 10pm that night that says "I had an absolutely wonderful time with you"

    Fastforward to that friday, I go to the casino, because well, i'm addicted, and my parents went too, they went too celebrate my moms surgery results coming back negative. So along the night I see her, and she is really nice and everything, and says to bring my parents by to meet her, so I did. They said Hi, didn't talk much but she was busy. So we left, and I said i'd call her later.



    I have not heard from her sense.

    Now, she goes to some christian private school so I was thinking "maybe she is a virgin and doesn't like anything sexual" but then I thought we'll she brought it up, plus she drinks alot and wears kinda sexual clothing. She also suggested we go to Victorias Secret and I can show her things I like.

    Now, almost a week later, haven't talked to her since Friday, and i'm kinda in shock here cause I don't really know what happened.

    sorry so long, please help.
     
  2. God of Thunder

    God of Thunder New Member

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    oh, and at the baseball game she bought one of those disposable cameras and took a bunch of photos of us.........She is off today and tomorrow, maybe i'll hear from her.
     
  3. metakone

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    not at i'm an expert or anything, but imho you didn't move fast enough and you've been friendzoned
     
  4. God of Thunder

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    how do you figure that after two dates and one week apart? What should I have done to move faster, we kissed after the first date and held hands during the second.??
     
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    My comments are based on the observation that she initiated the physical contact i.e. you didn't take the lead. Men are supposed to lead through their actions. Even in your first paragraph, you say "She kisses me" and "She calls me" ... so basically she's taking the lead in this relationship...imho women don't really stick with guys thats don't lead .. but like i said b4 i'm no expert but those are my thoughts..
    So going back to my previous comment, since you didn't make the moves, she got bored and left.

    Alternatively, it could be as simple as her having a busy week, and just not having the time to get back to you *shrug*
     
  6. God of Thunder

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    eh, your probably right...........she's off today and tomorrow, so we'll see if she even tries to call.
     
  7. Ferrari430

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    I dont really have any advice/comments but i truly hope that it works out for you with this chick as you seem quite fond/attracted to her.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Umm, I don't know WTF metakone is talking about, you're not friendzoned at all :hsugh:

    Have you even tried calling her? Stop waiting for her to call, girls like to feel validated by the male and wait for their call.
     
  9. Sephiroth13

    Sephiroth13 Beginning of the End

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    DAWT!...

    Call her.. don't put all the pressure on her to call you.
     
  10. Gibles

    Gibles the funny thing about my back is....

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    Yes. If you like her, you'll call.
     
  11. Falconer

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    She's probably waiting for you to call like you said you would, genius :mamoru:
     
  12. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Yeah, you might want to call like you said you would? She's probably thinking the same thing.
     
  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :roflw: if you said you'd call then call
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :wtf: How is it too soon to hold hands if you're already kissing her?
     
  15. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    i was going to quote those :squint:
     
  16. Nitin

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    CALL HER NOW!!!
     
  17. noodle

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    like other's have said, call her!
     
  18. God of Thunder

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    ive tried to call over the last 5 days about 3 times.............no answer.........twice left a messge to call me back, never did.
     
  19. MattThom01

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    she's done with you then.

    Honestly sounds like she was looking for things to get more physical, and you weren't comfortable with it.

    So, she moved on.
     
  20. metakone

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    thats what i thought too
     
  21. God of Thunder

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    well damn, i thought...........wrong obviously.
     
  22. God of Thunder

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    its certainly been awhile since i've had any......and well, i certainly would have wanted to go 'there'

    she was two years older, so I thought maybe I should try taking it slower.........WRONG.
     
  23. Shadoxity

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    go to the casino when she is working and shag her in the toilets :p lol, u said u would call her that night, but you didnt???

    try calling her again
     
  24. DTR rex

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    You probably didn't move fast enough and she got bored/anxious.

    Doesn't mean it's totally over. Give it a few more days and then call one more time with a message... if still nothing, then forget it, she's done. If by chance she does meet up with you again, I advise you move a bit faster to keep her interested though.
     
  25. Falconer

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    IBheovercompensatesandmovestoofastwiththenextgirlandpushesherawayintheprocess
     

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