As based on my other thread here in Asylum. here..this is about my sons father again.... He does pay his support on time now (due to court order) but is still whining about wanting to move in with me as he is still @ his dad's Well finances (for me) dictated I needed a 2nd job and I did get one...problem is I couldn't find anyone to watch my son @ night/weekends for a reasonable rate (everyone wants $250 a week + and thats what I make on this 2nd job!) so I asked my sons father to come to my house (which he didn't even know about until now) to watch my son. I figured it was a tradeoff...I get free daycare and can keep my moneys, he can see his son more often and get a home cooked meal to boot and I know they will be in a safe environment. Now the hard part...I KNOW he will ask me to move in and offer to pay rent (he does work and makes pretty decent money now) but I don't want that and NO I WON"T allow him to spend the night as I get off @11pm and have no problem dropping him back off at the metro so he can go on to his own place to sleep. We have been cordial and he has actually been taking care of our son pretty good (been buying shoes, clothes, toys, taking him here and there so I do see some improvement) I just don't want to live with him right now I'm not seeing anyone else I just dont want him to think we are "back together" just because he comes to my house frequently (for his son).... Any advice?