Why is first love.....

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  1. Lucas936

    Lucas936 New Member

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    .....So damn hard to get over? :( I know I have to let her go and move on, but I cant. I'm going to get rid of everything that reminds me of her tomorrow, so I guess thats the first step. Everytime I think about everything I'm not going to have anymore I get all sad. I'm going to miss being with her thats for sure. :wtc:
     
  2. Hua

    Hua AZN photographer crew

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    Time heals all wounds, trust me, I am in the same boat, just broke up with a girl that I thought was the one. Turned out she wasnt, but with every passing day it get alittle easier. The thing I do is try to stay busy, keep yourself occupied, that why you wont think about her..
     
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    work out!! keeps you busy, while gets you in shape!! which in turn brings bitches to ya!! 3 birds with 1 stone!!!1
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    cry it out
     
  5. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    It passes. Keep ur self as busy as u can. It helps quite a bit.

    And I wouldnt suggest getting rid of everything that reminds u of her. Put it away maybe, but keep it. One day when ur older, they will be valuable momentos. They will no longer make u sad. They will just be little pieces of the road that led u to be who you are.
     
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    Werd...
     
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    I've found watching the movie Swingers usually helps me to get through tough break ups. I guess it's because I can relate to Mikey in a way, which I think we all do.
     
  8. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    LISTEN TO THIS MAN!
     
  9. chica&buddies

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    :werd: in addition ;)

    try not to look at the situation in negative light. NO one can take away the good times and all the memories. every experience shapes who we are, and so did your ex. learn from the mistakes the relationship taught you, and your next relationship will be even better :)

    here's a quote, tho, that may help you :dunno:

    "everything that has a beginning has an ending. make your peace with that, and all will be well." ---buddha


    good luck... it'll get better :)
     
  10. SeaMack99

    SeaMack99 OT Supporter

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    I too suggest keeping reminders, BUT hide them cause if you meet a new girl she could go in a rage when she finds them.

    time heals all wounds
     
  11. SC0TLANDF0REVER

    SC0TLANDF0REVER Rest In Peace, Brother...

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    First Love?

    I know you'll get over it.

    I just lost the Love Of My Life 3 1/2 wks ago... I'm still fooked in the head/heart.

    Good thing is though, we're still talking and being civil. I'm working on my issues, she's working on hers. Maybe we'll get back together, maybe not.

    What was said earlier is true. Take what you learned about this realtionship both the good and the bad and really try to understand what you gained out of it.

    It *will* help you be better in your next relationship.
    And whatever you do, don't jump right into another one.
    Give yourself some time to be yourself.
     
  12. IspitHotFire

    IspitHotFire 3 Greatest rappers of all time ? Dylan, Dylan, and

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    im in the same boat - almost 2 months later and ive even sort of found someone else and she still is in my head - but im making an effort to block her out, ignore her at all costs.

    but its kind of hard when she lives 2 floors down. But I now realize she is gone and I dont want her in my life - and from now on its just me.
     

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