Why is finding a girl worth keeping so hard?

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  1. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    I dont have a problem meeting girls or getting dates but i do seem to have an issue with finding one that i want to keep around. Why is it so hard to meet someone that is attactive and smart (socially). By smart i just mean can chat well with you on the phone or in person and be witty. Where do these "good" women hide at?
     
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    Because they always are "seeing someone"...

    or they are damaged goods from their last failed relationship...
     
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    Kleine Maus New Member

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    I just keep becoming more convinced that the good ones are hard to come by. So when you find one, KEEP HER! :)
     
  4. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    nope to the first part, but i'm not gonna lie, i am still damaged from my last failed relationship. :sad2: it's not necessarily a bad thing, though, imo. just taking my time and fixing things i did wrong :]

    hrm... i fail to believe that you can't find what you're looking for. you want an attractive smart female with excellent communication skills? that's all? there's gotta be more here.

    how often do you get dates? and when do you decide said girls aren't worth keeping? 1 date, 2 dates, a week, etc?
     
  5. lauren

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    how much time are you giving them to open up?
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :rofl: that's exactly what i'm getting to!

    :bigthumb: :wiggle:

    we're soo smart
     
  7. Vysion

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    I've talked to many girls that lie and say they have a boyfriend or they're seeing someone when someone asks if they are single. It's like being a single girl is bad for your image or something.
     
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    not at all. sometimes we'll lie [i'll admit, i've done that before] about our status so the guy that's inquiring will back off :o

    :dunno:
     
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    I'm waiting for an OP to create a thread titled, "Why is finding a guy worth keeping so hard?"
     
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    :rofl:

    i've thought that before. i found him when i least expected it :wiggle:
     
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    That's when you find them...
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    exactly. :]

    don't try so hard. :]
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The real question is how many smart, awesome women have you overlooked because they don't fit your possibly high physical standards?
     
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    because it's not :mamoru:
     
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    aww fuck... rub it in why don't ya... :mamoru:
     
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    I don't think it is that hard, just most guys think it is because they have no idea how to get one gf. So forget actually finding a quality girl if they can't even find one willing to date them.
     
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    Competition... I think there is more competition for finding those top notch ladies.
     
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    I really didnt think it was hard at all :dunno: Just gotta know what you are looking for. There are pleanty of great women out there that have great potential in life and will make great wives...but because they dont whore themselves out, they dont get noticed. If you arent finding what you are looking for, change up your scenery a bit
     
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    Is it in yet?
    There has to be physical attraction to initiate the interest.
     
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    Is it in yet?
    I guess it depends on the person, but i like girls that are harder to get.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Since when do you want a girlfriend anyway? I thought you were all about playing the field?
     
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    Yeah i will keep the one that has ALL of what im looking for... no need to settle

    I will give a girl a month or a handful of dates... sometimes less if there is nothing

    I go for girls that appeal to me. there is no mold but they are always fit or athletic thin girls. im not that big of a guy really 6'1 185

    This is a must... why go for someone who cant get you turned on when you look at them?
     
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    I am fine with playing the field but i do really enjoy having one close companion to be with. I had a GF for 3.5 yrs in college and there are aspects of a LTR that i really enjoy
     
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    It's much like when women talk about how hot gay guys are and say they're "a waste of a man" (because they're hot but don't like women).
     
  25. Falconer

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    btw, to the OP (original poster, not online pussy, dammit!)

    It's not just hard to find a high quality woman to be your gf... it's hard to find high quality people in general. Most people will eventually disappoint you.
     

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