ok I dont know if this is true with alot of longer relationships, but for some reason Ive all but stoped getting head. I ve tried not asking, asking, doing her, everything, and i still only get it once like every 3 months! She used to give me mad dome when we first met and started dating. now she says she doesnt like doing it and she never did. I couldnt help but think you certainly had no problem suckin dick when I first met you but now that we are in a long relationship you hate doing it. (i never said this or even let her know that im getting frusted, but she know i want her to give me head) how should I approach this? Am i a dick for caring or do I desirve some dome? cliffs:been with gf for 3.5 yrs, used to give all kinds of dome, but now barely anything. what to do?