First of, i'm not talking about an SO, just a friend. Actually a girl in my faculty. I see her everyday because we work in the same area, and we're pretty close. We started working together in the summer. I was coming out of a relationship at the time, so i didn't really get to hang out with her. But once we partied a few times with all the other co-workers i decided to ask her out. But little did i know, i was already friendzoned. However we kept flirting for a while, and then i find out she carries way worse baggage than i did. She was coming outta a really intense relationship with a cheating boyfriend. Anyway, we get a long quite well, we hang out all the time, and over these last 5 or 6 months, i have grown to like her even more, and i don't hide it from her anymore. She hasn't really been interested in anyone during the time we've been friends (same with me), but recently I've started dating this other girl. Up till now i was trying to win her trust/ win her over, but i THINK, she made it clear to me she doesn't want a relationship. Too bad because she's truly the perfect fit for me. Anyway, all that stuff i can handle, and the fact that she'll need more time to get over her ex-bf and learn to trust again is also understandable But my question is, why oh why does she start fights over the smallest things? Almost as if we are in a relationship. I've talked to her about it, but that just fuels the fire more... it's been like this for at least 3 months now (we're really close friends, we don't fight all the time, but it does happen from time to time - and only with her - i've never seen/heard her fight with any of her other friends). We have very similar arguing techniques which clashes quite often, but i've learned to back off more than i would normally. Also she has a tendency to make sure i never forget something i did to upset her no matter how long ago. I'm confused, is she sexually frustrated? what is going on??