why does she do this?

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  1. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    the girl i dated for 6 years, we broke up last february b/c i found out she was hanging out w/ some dude & basically found some emails that were not good.

    i dont talk to her, text her or anything (shes dating the kid she was talking to when we were dating) & out of no where she comments on one of my facebook pictures that is like 4 years old & was there when we were dating "nice picture, lol"

    what's the point of commenting on a picture that was there when we dated...the picture is AT LEAST 4 yrs old (surely she's seen it before)?
     
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  2. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Facebook antics = :ugh:

    Don't bother with it.
     
  3. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    delete the picture and ignore her.

    jesus
     
  4. ASoT

    ASoT New Member

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    It probably bothers her that you don't think of her anymore. Delete the picture and ignore her.
     
  5. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    i do think of her though..all teh time. i just dont bother calling/texting, emailing etc...
     
  6. Sure why not?

    Sure why not? New Member

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    If you give her even a milisecond of your time to say hi, she wins. She knows she is still on your mind and will know that anytime she needs attention she can come to you.

    Good job not calling/texting. It's the way to go. I know it sucks, but you have to pretend like they don't even exist.

    I'm going through the same thing you are, along with a lot of other people im sure. My Ex texted me today "just saying HI since i'm in the area" (her grandparents live in the same town as me). I just put my phone in a drawer, and walked away/went outside to enjoy the snow and clear my head.
     
  7. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    its been four years. get over her. go fuck ten other women
     
  8. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    :werd: what is wrong with you? you're an athlete. go fuck some cheerleaders. she just wants attention. you gave her validation for 6 years and she feels somethings missing. the second you say hi she'll feel better about herself and go on her way. she'll never want to get back with you.
     
  9. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    she is trying to get you to respond back to her

    dont do it
     
  10. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Yup, just continue to ignore her. She is just trying to get a response out of you.
     
  11. saxman

    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    my ex keeps coming into the restaurant I bartend at, with the chick she cheated on me with... fucking whores trying to rub shit in
     
  12. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    it's been 10 months..
    the picture she commented on was 4 years old.
     
  13. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    same difference.

    ignore her ass. go do ur own shit with your life. delete that picture if it really bothers you.
     
  14. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    :eek3: are you a girl or a guy?
     
  15. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Better yet just delete your facebook account entirely. Facebooks sucks complete dick.
     
  16. jkiley07

    jkiley07 New Member

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    ignore ignore ignore
     
  17. saxman

    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    guy

    was in a relationship with this girl for 4 years...

    about a year and half in, we both started working at the same place. This lesbian at work decided she wanted my ex. Basically spent the next 2.5 years trying to sabotage our relationship. I've heard mixed stories about them making out at some point around the start of all that bull shit, but don't know if it was true. If not physically, she was certainly carrying on some sort of relationship with this chick for 2.5 years behind my back until my ex finally got up the courage to break up with me, to be on her "own", start being a slut, and now is in a lesbian relationship. There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the jist of it.
     
  18. evh

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    ignore dude.
     
  19. djshotglass

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    that's hot
     
  20. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    :wackit:

    i mean

    :hug:
     
  21. Yail Bloor

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    to gauge your reaction, obviously
     
  22. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    OR....

    just don't be one of those people who posts every little detail of their life on the website.
     
  23. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    It doesn't sound like she's a stalker ex, more like a want attention ex.

    If you can't ignore her, then delete your account. Simple as that. Just do one or the other!!
     
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    bowrofl New Member

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    I don't understand how anyone can do this in the first place... I guess if you think what happens on the internet has no consequence on your offline life :dunno:
     
  25. saxman

    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    not really... the other chick is an absolute troll. Shaped like a bowling ball, ungodly ugly, etc. Absolutely unattractive.
     

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