Why do women love texting but won't answer the fucking phone?

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  1. forgotmyname

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    1) they are on a call
    2) their phone isn't near them
    3) they don't want to talk to you
    4) this thread is fucking retarded
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    Or here's another one, they're somewhere, having a conversation, and would feel it rude to be on the phone, but don't see an issue with texting while with their group of friends :dunno:

    Sometimes, for me, if I have shitty reception, it's easier to text than to talk. My house is prime example of that. No reception in the house, so I'll text instead so that I know that what I need to say to someone gets through.
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    what everyone else said OR she is somewhere she cant answer her phone but its possible to text? like class, work, church, etc
     
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    cause texting allows you to do numerous other things while awaiting a response, and also you can plan out what youre going to say before you send it.
     
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    I ignore phone calls and immediately text them

    many times making up a bullshit excuse like I'm in a car with the windows down

    I'm a dirty rotten liar
     
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    then how are the sending and receiving texts?
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Some do some don't.

    Pisses me off when I'm driving, get a meaningless text, then get berated for not replying straight away. But that is an individual, not a whole gender
     
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    my girl is the opposite. she would rather talk on the phone than to be bothered with texting.
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    easier to text while she is with her other bf.
     
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    all i do is text, i don't really like talking on the phone much and i can get in exactly what i have to say, exactly the way i want to say it. thus i like txting. you can tell if the person your txting isn't interested in talking to you when you get one word txt or no txt at all for a simple question
     
  14. Falconer

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    because txting is more convenient and takes like two seconds and talking on the phone takes time and you can't do anything else while you're having and paying attention to a conversation with someone.
     
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    i have such a hate for texting i made it a goal to make up some rules for texting women. they love the attention fix and it can kill seduction.

    1. texting doesnt have to make any sense. abandon all logic. i will answer "what are you up to today?" with "i'm excited about going to this concert on the weekend. oh shit, i just got a parking ticket."
    2. the length of the text shows investment as much, if not more, than content. in most cases, respond with significantly shorter texts. a bunch of people i know tried this out. one girl responded with a one word answer. taking my advice to the letter, the guy sent a blank text message. she then showed her investment by saying "what? what was it you wanted to tell me?"

    fuck them all. if they want to use this retarded form of communication you have to imagine you have an IQ of 10, brain damage, are ridiculously high, and have ADD. Get into that mindset then reply. itll go well then, i think you're talking to them on their level.
     
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    i am a woman and i would much rather talk on the phone than text :hsugh:
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Here, let me take 20 minutes to text back and forth with you when I can talk to you in 3 minutes.
     
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    my gf and i txt 99% of the time and hardly ever talk on the phone. I love it.
     
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    i'm a guy and i hate talking on the phone.

    text me what you want and if it's not important, i'll get back to you when i get a chance.
     
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    because you can't say "lol" and ";)" on the phone.
     
  21. dan7532

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    sure you can. LOL, WINKEY-FACE!!!
     
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    texting is a lack of time commitment. plus you can use stupid shit terminology like "bff" and such.
     
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    I think texting is popular because it is informal and uncommittal.
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    And obviously from these repsonses people are too afraid of speaking in person or even on the phone without fully thinking out everything first.
     
  25. dan7532

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    Haha, I don't think it's quite that severe for all people. I think texting allows you to put more thought into your words. With texting, if you take a minute to respond, it's not seen as unusual. If you take an entire minute to respond in an oral conversation, you're seen as an idiot. Also, typing out your thoughts helps some people visualize their statements better than thinking them out in their head. And when you are typing, you can see your thoughts in words, and then edit if necessary before you share your thoughts. So given the extra time, the visualization, and the editing capability, I would say I can deliver wittier and better-formed ideas through texts as opposed to speech. On the flipside, so can everybody else and I respect a witty oral comment much more than a witty text.
     

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